play hard to get???

Question

do guys really like it better when you play hard to get, or act uninterested? is it the thrill of the chase?.......or is upfront better?

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Answer 1

At the last secret conclave, the International Brotherhood of Men (our secret umbrella organization) passed by a 2/3 Majority vote (as required by the previous precedents) a motion that called for all men to like it when you play hard to get, because as the motion stated "We find the thrill of the chase most exciting." I was not one of the delegates who voted for the motion, but like all men, we are bound together by the same code of conduct and desires as expressed by the Brotherhood's decrees.

Personally, I would say (off the record of course so I'm not speaking officially as a man) that I find women who play games with me boring, childish and well, mean. And as long as we are speaking off the record, were men all not bound by the same collective desires and code of conduct (with strict punishment by the Brotherhood for violations) there are some men (as demonstrated by the 2/3's vote) who find the chase indeed thrilling and probably some who wouldn't care either way. Man, I am glad that sort of anarchy doesn't present itself in everyday life. That would mean that it would be up to the individual guys in question to decide if they liked you actions, intentions and words or not. Perish the thought!

Answer 2

I think its a little bit of both. Guys love a girl who isn't afraid to get what she wants, so being honest and up front is key. But then again you dont wanna come off desperate. This is where the in between comes in. Be up front but have confidence. Act like if he's not interested, you could easily go for another. That way he thinks he's chasing a girl with confidence who can get whoever she wants. :)

Answer 3

Different guys have different feelings about this. Personally I like girls who are up front. The only problem I see with guys who like girls to play hard to get is that they get bored easily and once they have a girl they are usually looking for the next chase.

Answer 4

I dont know, but i think every guy is different. I peronally like playin hard 2 get, i mean if they really like u theyll b up 4 the chase

Answer 5

I like women, not game playing girls...I'm to a point now where I refuse to chase the cat baby. There are too many out there.

Answer 6

love games are fun at first to see if someone is interested. just don't be impossible to get. if the games turn into drama then I loose interest. yes the thrill of the chase is a turn on as long as you let him catch you.

Answer 7

it style of sounds like she has lost pastime in you. If she replaced into nonetheless in touch, she'd be featuring you with lengthy solutions and contacting you back. i imagine this woman has replaced her recommendations about you. What do you should do? ignore about her for a short at the same time as. After some days, textual content her back and ask her to fulfill you at someplace (make it casuel and easy... something like: "hello, wanna bypass see the reliable action picture over their? there's a huge-sized popcorn inclusive of your call on it!" that's no stress and confusing to decline too, so that you're going to confirm for confident.

Answer 8

I don't like it when girls play hard to get. That's cool if you're younger, but once you get to a certain age, you don't want to spend your time playing games. Upfront is the way to go.... but don't look desperate.

Answer 9

I once read, what's easy to get is usually not of much value. It does make some sense, yeah?
The process of playing hard to get can be fun as well!!

Answer 10

for awhile it is. I was picky online and wouldnt take smoker or guys with durry pets like cats or dogs. Hundreds of them were mad at me. Too bad. My husband qualified so he got me.