My boyfriends ex-girlfriend and the mother of two of his kids keeps sending him emails telling him how she feels about him. My boyfriend and I have been together happily for 5 years. How do i deal with this? Recently she sent him photos of herself. Just face shots. She was saying how she can't let go. Help me please. She also know that i have access to his email, so I'm wondering if that is why she is sending these emails.
2006-08-08 05:19:27 · 16 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trying to cause problems in your relationship misery loves company
2006-08-08 05:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know and understand that no matter what she will always be in the picture because of they're two kids. But that definitely doesn't excuse her bringing up the past like this. You should let him know that this issue has brought some concerns to you. That you don't appreciate her telling him about her feelings or sending photos of herself. I know it's probably something he can't help but you should talk to him about it anyways. If he really cares, and loves you then he should talk to her about it and let her know that it's been 5 years and that's he's happily taken. That's pretty much all you can ask for if that doesn't work then get sneaky and send some happy pictures of you guys together and attach a note saying, "No thanks, I've never been so loved or in love with someone and i would never do anything to ruin what i have right now!" Good luck gurly!
2006-08-08 12:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby mommas can be a trip. Sometimes they will do things around or to him to get you pissed off. Don't fall into that realm. Let him handle her. I'm quite sure he doesn't want to jeopardize the relationship you guys have. You guys have been together long enough that you shouldn't have to worry about what she does. If you trust him, let him take care of her and if it keeps up, then step to him about it.
2006-08-08 12:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes sending the emails to PISS you off and to try to get her man back. What you need to do is confront her face to face and let her know thats your man and to stay away Also you need to talk to your bf about so he can talk to her crazy behind too. You two should confront her together as a united front so she knows to BACK OFF AND STAY AWAY HANDS OFF!
2006-08-08 12:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should't do anything, except have a talk with your boyfriend about it, and have him put a stop to it. Have him make it clear to her how HE feels. This isn't about you. You shouldn't have access to his email account anyway. He needs to put an end to it, or your relationship, or delete his email account and set-up a new one.
2006-08-08 12:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her e-mail. She has no morals, appears to have low self-esteem since she is chasing after someone elses man who she can't seem to get over after years.
It is also up to your bf to tell her flat out that he is in a relationship and has no interest in her. He should do this out of respect for you and to help stop any future problems or misunderstandings.
2006-08-08 12:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your beau say about this? Does he seem interested or annoyed?
You have to realize that since he has children by this nut that you will never be rid of her totally. But she's just jealous that the two of you are happy. But it is HIS RESPONSIBILITY to tell her he doesn't appreciate what she's doing & to knock it off. If he can't/won't or doesn't, THAT might be your problem.
2006-08-08 12:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight up send her an e-mail back that simply asks her not to send any more e-mails to you guys. also, just delete ANY e-mail she sends. Dont bother to open it. if she stops geting replies, then maybe she will think you dont use that e-mail any more. AND another thing would be to delete that e-mail addount and just change your e-mail addy. Give it only to the people you want e-mails from. :) good luck! she sounds like a crazy person!
2006-08-08 12:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to take care of this situation. He needs to establish boundaries and enforce them. It makes it difficult when there are children involved, but if He makes sure his interactions with her is ONLY about the children, it might help to keep the focus where it warrants it. Maybe you should set her up with one of your friends or something.
2006-08-08 12:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is 100% up to your boyfriend to put a stop to it- he should change his e-mail address and the only time they should have contact is if it's kid related, other than that HE needs to make it clear that he has moved on and he needs to figure out away to make her stop- I think he likes the attention though- but he's gotta choose, and if not than maybe you two are not as happy as you though. good luck
2006-08-08 12:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is precisley why I think she is being so overbearing but don't let her get to you. Ignore her and tell your man to as well and you'll see how fast she quits that ****. Don't let your man call her adn ****, just let them communicate for the kids and thats it you'll see don't worry about it, that is exactly what the whore wants...get right under your skin...
2006-08-08 12:23:50 · answer #11 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋