please help me out on this??

Question

is it wrong for me not to find my own race attractive?? i love my race but i found opposite race more attractive. am i races??

Answer 1

it's totally natural, your fine.

Answer 2

i realy wouldn't know to be honest ........ on a philisophical stand point look at it this way some could say that if u veiwed it the other way around as u only found ur race as atractive that it is descriminatory ....... look at it this way if u see a white guy going around only with white partners than would society not view him as a posible rasist to not even consider the other side ............ whites r more supseptable to the acusation of racism ..., and for good cause was it not us who have atempted to enslave diferent races through out history because of our self proclaimed supiriority ............ so in the end it is all in how u look at it no matter what u do it is always possible for it to percieved as some thing diferent....


(and all the other coments r compleatly valid as well ..... in the end the apearance is only skin deep u can make ur self look like some thing else thaty dosen't meen u r what u apeare........., that and u should go after what ever gives u the least amount of problems ..... which does not autamaticaly meen ur instincive atractions ...... because it seems to be causeing u some worry or guilt on some level so it cause more stress in ur life thatn going against it would)

Answer 3

No it seems to me that you were raised different than your race or you would find them attractive it could be a phase or your mom could not be telling you something about your past history. I myself am only attracted to my own race so i am a bit out of line for answering this one we might have the same problem.

Answer 4

i don't think there is anything wrong with you being attracted to the opposite race...i have alway's stuck with my own but that is just my preference..There is a lot more to a person besides color you have to look for the beauty and traits within a person..If a purple person makes you happy i say go for it..

Answer 5

Honey it is not a crime to date outside your own race. You get enough of dealing with your own race when you deal with your family. Enjoy a variety, you will find the differences and similarities can be intriguing. From the food to the music...

Answer 6

no u just like what u like and u can't be blamed for the way u percieve other people. Everybody's not ging to like the same flavors of icecream. Even if its ur own flavor. For a while when I was young I never dated the same race know that i am older I just see things differently.

Answer 7

Well, I'm sure you've heard the saying, "Opposites attract." It's tends to hold true a lot of the time. Different people prefer different qualities and traits. I don't see anything wrong with it. Be true to yourself and go after what makes you happy.

Best wishes!

Answer 8

no thats normal, everyone has a certain type, i white person can like black guys more than white or other way around, its just your taste ... just because you are a race doesnt mean u have to like everyone in the same race, thats kind of like saying if you have the same religion as someone you should like them or the same school or w/e, its categorizing and it doesnt make any sense

Answer 9

Nopes, its perfectly okay..^_^

Seeing only the same races makes me bored too, so I am greatly attracted to some other race..^_^

You go girl..^_^

Answer 10

Race doesn't matter. It's what the person's personality is like that counts.

Answer 11

opposite to what??? what is the "opposite race"???

i think you need to grow up a little, learn to speak english better, then come back with your question...