my ex boyfriend is so crazy about me and is really sweet n caring...but we have been dating for the last 3 years and i dont like him that way anymore and want to break up but in the past when i try to date other guys he gets so depressed and sad and i dont want to hurt him that way.....so can someone tell me a way to get rid of him without breaking his heart in the process??
2006-08-08 04:39:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, hard thing 2 do if u care about his feelings. Don't stop being yourself but just let him know that it has 2 be this way. Let him know that after he excepts the fact that u can no longer be a couple,..then u can work on remaining friends,...that is if he can handle just being friends. Don't crush him by doing something really cruel, that will not only hurt him but also make him hate u and think of u as a cold hearted person. I don't think u are out 2 destroy his self esteem,...u just don't want 2 be his girl. U have 2 do what it takes 4 u to be happy, but don't destroy someone that loves u that much by being cruel and cold hearted. good luck
2006-08-08 04:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by juslookin 5 · 20⤊ 3⤋
I agree with April. You can't expect a relationship of three years to just disappear, even though you don't "like him that way anymore." It's going to hurt him, and possibly you, but for both of your sakes, do it soon. Just set him down and explain to him what you've said here about not having strong feelings for him anymore. When that's done, take a break from each other to get everything straightened out, then maybe after a while, you could try to be friends again. The main thing is, DON'T let him blackmail you emotionally with all the depression crap. If you need to, talk to his best buds and tell them you two have broken up and he's going to need some support. I hope all goes well for you.
2006-08-08 04:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thoroughly believe you, honey. Boys is usually a HUGE distraction. But actually, there may be not anything incorrect with liking a boy.. God made us for every different. We are supposed to be in combination. I thoroughly recognize that you do not desire to be with a boy proper now, simply forget about them and attention on what you feel is foremost for you. That's thoroughly high-quality too. When the time is proper you're going to meet anyone while you're capable :)
2016-08-28 10:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be playing it up because he knows it will get your attention.
You might just have to bite the bullet and once he sees you getting on with your life he will enventurely realise that he has to do the same.
Good Luck.
2006-08-08 04:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad truth is there is no other way without breaking his heart.just sit him down and explain everything to him and let him know u still want to be friends.well good luck
2006-08-08 04:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one enjoys being dumped but it is part of todays norm. yes he will be sad, who wouldn't? just do it he will get over it and move on. But if your going to hold unto him everytime you get the puppy dog eyes look he will continue to give them to you. Your done with the relationship end it.
2006-08-08 04:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you wathched "White Chicks?"
I agree with Honor Roll!
2006-08-08 04:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming there's something you like to do that he doesn't, you could start doing that.
That's the only thing I can think of.
2006-08-08 04:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by ddey65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disgust him...make him hate you becoz of your bad manners...gross him out...dress as if you didn't care...juss gross him out!!!
Also make him jealous...get a new bf...kiss him rite in front of u'r ex...& tell him u'r relationship juss wasn't workin' out!!!
2006-08-08 04:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start acting different and slobby and make him not like you. Gain weight!
2006-08-08 04:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋