I'm nice, outgoing, and I could be the best girlfriend guyz ever had but i don't know how to turn them down. Please tell me theres an easier way!
2006-08-08 04:18:27 · 19 answers · asked by mz.carter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow a spine and say NO! It is THAT DAMNED easy!
2006-08-08 04:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested in a guy, just say no outright. Anything less is perceived as "maybe." You don't have to be rude, but you do have to be clear. Simply saying, "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested in you that way" is sufficient.
Now, about the way that you opened your question. Why brag about what a great gf you'd be if you're always turning guys down? Sounds like your problem is that you're not being approached by the guys that you're interested in. In which case, you should be asking how to appeal to them.
2006-08-08 11:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies, all you need to do is sit back and wait for the offers to roll in, so forgive me for not sympathizing. Men have to do all the hard work; sitting back waiting to be asked takes no effort or courage. Be grateful for the offers, accept the ones you like, kindly refuse the ones you don't, and just be happy. Choices are a good thing.
2006-08-08 11:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by jeandupree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry just say no. You sound a bit selfish and self centered but I guess some guys are attracted to that. There is no easier way to turn guys down.
2006-08-08 11:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by ilovefromfirsttolast222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....tell them very clearly "I'm sorry but the last thing i'm looking for right now is a boyfriend. Wanna just be friends?" that works every time.
2006-08-08 11:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by mkifle23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well U can always ask a friend to help u.....or u can slip a note or just lie and say ask me in a month hoping he will forget or just break it and say I'm not in the mood for a relationship but we can still be friends
2006-08-08 11:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by ladybugs380 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with some of them and see if there is no in particular that makes your heart beat faster and stick with that one.
2006-08-08 11:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey lifes to short...try something different and say yes to one of them boys for a date and see how it goes u'll be suprised how happy you will be if it all goes great
2006-08-08 11:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say.."thanks anyway but I'm already dating someone"
Problem solved.
2006-08-08 11:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just simply say im not interested
2006-08-08 11:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋