Ok so I kicked him out yesterday and he obviously didn't think I was serious, because he showed up at my house at 3 am drunk off of his a** and wouldn't leave I kept telling him to leave but he wouldn't so I called the cops and I told them I just want him out of my house I don't want him here. He thought that I was joking when I called the cops and when they got here he walked right downstairs to them he didn't fight them or anything he just went with them. Should I feel bad? I kind of do but I kind of don't because I have made my point too many times and he never gets it! I think the reason I feel so bad is because we have a child together but I think that she deserves a better daddy than a drunk showing up at my door trying to fight to keep me because it is what HE wants!
2006-08-08 04:16:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a restraining order.. papers are full of stories of ex's that where good killing or raping.
2006-08-08 04:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't feel bad.
find someone else because you're right; you wouldn't want your baby's father to be a drunkard. I say find a different guy who you know fairly well so you know he won't come home drunk or beat you and your child.
2006-08-08 11:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you feel bad? No. I'd cut off his child visitation rights until he was clean & sober, but in the meantime a restraining order might be helpful.
2006-08-08 11:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by jeandupree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad. He should not be at your house drunk in the first place. If it happens again you can charge him and get him a restraining order.
2006-08-08 11:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by ilovefromfirsttolast222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think you should feel bad but you prolly do because of your child. But if you have told him time and time again to leave and wouldn't then you had to do what you had to do.
2006-08-08 11:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him some help if you can. AA or something... Maybe he can turn himself around. If not, then get away from him. Restraining order, if necessary.
2006-08-08 11:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by PixelWire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did good for yourself and your child...u are going to feel bad but at the smae time too u finally got your point acrossed
2006-08-08 11:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a passive aggressive co dependent?
2006-08-08 11:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋