my boy friend lives in another state and he almost never returns my calls i am worryed we might be breaking up soon help me please girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-08 04:14:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call him and let him know how you feel.
2006-08-08 04:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by prizzma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most of the time long distant relationships almost never work out because it's like out of sight out of mind. When you are in a relationship you have to spent time together that's how a relationship begins to mature. Some people say that being away from your partner makes the heart grow closer for some it does but not all. If he's not answering your calls nine times out of ten he has something that's keeping him very busy or shall I say somebody. So I think that maybe you should just call the whole thing off and move on with your life cause you are going to see so much heart ache if you don't. Good Luck !!!!!
2006-08-08 04:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it must be when you don't get your calls returned from the person you love, I'm in a long distance relationship and find it at times very painful. But just consider that the only thing that motivates me to go forward is the fact that I know how dedicated HE is to make what we've got work. A relationship needs two people to make it work and a long distance relationship needs a lot of dedication on both sides. If he's not willing to put in the work, then he doesn't appreciate you enough, and that's a clue for you to move on. You deserve better than waiting for someone who's not willing to make an effort for your sake.
2006-08-08 15:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dr_G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him that you can't keep going on like this if he isn't going to return your calls! You can find a great man that will return your calls and be there for you. I would just let him go because long distance relationship's are really hard on the people involved because you never see each other and you can't really do anything with each other. Good Luck!
2006-08-08 04:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend lives on the other side of the country(I'm in NC and he is in WA). The best thing to do is just ask him if he's moving on. My bf and I are still madly in love and we refuse to date anyone else. Maybe you and your bf will get the same results. Don't call him so much. Maybe sit back and let him call you. I know that's the hardest thing to in situations like this but if he loves you, he will call. I hope everything works out OK and good luck!
2006-08-08 04:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by ilovefromfirsttolast222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion he might have found a girl closer to home or going through some things and just don't have time to call all the time. either way if he never returns your calls you should just move on.
2006-08-08 04:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have never be in this kind of thing but i think i would write him and tell him EXACTLY How You Feel About Him And Yalls Situation and then tell him you need to know how he feels about you..i mean like if you love him tell him that you love him but you feel like since yall live in different states that you feel like you are losing him or something alond those lines...i hope i have helped you
2006-08-08 04:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Betty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it seems as if it's not working so you might need to give it up. He's probably not returnin your call b/c he's probably with someone else. I think you need to call and inform him how you feel about the whole situation. Find you someon who lives around your way.
2006-08-08 04:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its not going to last anyway cuz you guys cannt c each other im doing the samething to my boyfriend cuz I dont know how to break up wid him I agree id her U should break iot to him before he breas i to you! U NEED TO BE THE BOSS! LOL
2006-08-08 04:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by ladybugs380 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi u will have to call him up and tell him that his lack of communication is a barrier to the development of the relationship so he should let u know exactly what is going down.
or.........................
u can spring a surprise visit and call all things off that will make him know that u are not to be messed with.
good luck
2006-08-08 04:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by glorianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Im sorry but I think its for the best. Long term relationships can be a huge problem!
2006-08-08 04:18:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋