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Question

Why do men cheat??Why do women cheat??What can be done to prevent infidelity??

Answer 1

i think people cheat cuz for that moment they've forgotten why they marry the love of their life, they forgot the part of the vow that goes "Till death us do us apart", they've forgotten all the things they see in their loved ones.

From one act of infidelity, they find great pleasure, perhaps from a very fresh feeling unlike the routine things they've been sharing with their spouse.

Total commitment, communication, trust, faith and love for the one will help in preventing infidelity. Constantly reminding yourself and having thoughts of why you chose to marry your husband or wife would help too, i guess.

I'm not married, neither am I attached. But that's still what I think. =)

Answer 2

My gf cheated on me. She didnt really know why she did it but some people do it because they are insecure and need to know that other people find them attractive enough to have sex with. This is why i think my gf . Other cheat because they are getting too involved in the current relationship and cant handle it. So instead of breaking it off they take the cowards way out and hurt the other person to make them end it. Yet others do it because they are not satisfied with something in the current realtionship. Whatever it be physical or emotional needs they arent being met so the person feels that maybe cheating is the answer (ITS NOT). There are many reason why people do it. The best way to prevent it is be open with eachother. If there is something wrong with the relationship tell the other person. They might not be aware of whats wrong and would gladly fix it if it is pointed out to them.

Answer 3

Sadly- not one person knows the answer to that one. They cheat for a number of reasons (men and women) 1- they may think that they don't deserve the other person, they may do it for revenge (which in my opinion is not a very wise thing to do.) or they may just do it because the like to see other people suffer at their expense, I wish I knew the answer. Nothing can be done to prevent infidelity- it's just the way that people think that I ( and proably many other people) wish could be changed for the better.

Answer 4

Because nowadays people are more free then before,they have more things now then before,all sorts of things,just taking a simple example bags,u have all kinds of bags small big long short weird shaped and lets not forget the colours.and if u don't like a certain bag in the store u will always find a one that u will find.So people when they live together they start discovering thingsd about each other and at the end they say "why should i bear him when i can have a nicer guy who can give me what i want" so thats why they cheat they get bored from each other.Today relationships are different from before,and it is really hard to prevent it coz people just looking for pleasure and not true love and comfortable life.

Answer 5

Unfortunately infedility starts in the youth and genetic makeup of an individual. Some people have a propensity to cheat based on either their personality or situation. Personality is made up of the person's basic genetic make-up and the environment that they grow up in (impressed with values from the parents etc...). Which one is the strongest...who knows becasue the "nature vs. nuture" is an argument going on still today.

So what control do you have over a cheating mate? I mean not to corral them and prevent them from cheating....but having a mate that has no true desire to cheat (all men desire good looking woman, but that is not considered a true desire in such the desire that a man feels is so low that he doesn't act on them). Actually you have no control over the cheating mate. You can threaten to leave etc but eventually if a spouse has a true desire to cheat he or she will eventually act on those desires.

What you do have control over is the type of mate you CHOOSE! This is the most control you will have over cheating in your marital relationship. You want to identify and choose that type of person who will be faithful, supporting and loving. That would be your desired end-state. Having said that.....it's not an easy thing to do. The cheaters out there typically don't get married to eventually cheat. Most get married to live happily everafter. Unfortunately they find out that they in fact are not happy and then through trial and error end up cheating on their spouse. This is one way cheaters cheat. They're many more ways they end up cheating...sexual abandonment of the spouse, emotional abandonment, abuse etc...

If you have a relationship and see the signs, i.e. cheats on you during courtship, cheated on others during courtship, alcohol abuse, drug abuse all of these are signs of potential cheating. You must do the math and determine first where you want to end up in life then find that mate that will answer you needs and be best qualified to get you there.

Check out the following website. It can answer your questions much better than I can. It can also give you a look at a sample life plan and a "bird's eye" view of a guy's psyche.

http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/

Good Luck

Answer 6

Men and women both cheat for the same reason; there's a legitimate need that isn't getting met at home.

The stereotype is that men do it for sex and women do it because they feel unloved, but that's not really true. Sex is only what men have been conditioned to want. Most men I know of who have had affairs say things like, "My wife doesn't understand me," or "She doesn't appreciate anything that I do." Men and women both cheat because they feel unloved or unappreciated. It's just that men see sexual receptiveness and responsiveness as a form of appreciation while women want someone who will listen while they talk.

Answer 7

yeah, i'm no longer able to study this, yet i tend to notice whilst gals write questions like this, its somewhat obtrusive that the adult men is showing indicators of interest. I even have not study all this, can not be stricken sorry yet i will nonetheless attempt to assist.. attempt this: seize his eye, like carry eye touch with him and don't provide up for a minimum of 7 seconds.. it does not sound like long even nevertheless it somewhat is going to sense awkward each and every from time to time, even pull a humorous face in case you need to or stick your rude-finger up(jokingly) with a grin of direction... this would be an quite solid reaction tester, a solid reaction, being he took retains preserving eye-touch, won't in hassle-free terms coach he's involved, yet in addition develop interest.. sorry if i wasn't a help in any respect hun

Answer 8

man cheat because we are too sex hungry. That is about it. Its not really that complicated. Once we learn to control our ***** we can be faithful. som men take longer to gain dick control than others.

Answer 9

people cheat for many reason
sex
just wanting more
emotionally reason
and only the people who cheat can stop it

Answer 10

Nothing, it is a chacture issiue. Cheating is not a gender issiue. chose wisely