i'm going to be a freshman in high school next year, and i want to get a bf.i want high school to be great. does anybody have any advice on how i can change my image...like pretty much how should i make myself appealing to guys? i havnt had a bf yet...i know really sad..so i really want a good guy, that will like me for me, but i need to know what things i should do to get him. i dont want to change myself, but i want to know how i can call more attention to myself. help please!
2006-08-08 04:08:06 · 32 answers · asked by hi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a myspace acct, probably everyone in your school has one. Put a hot pic of you in a bikini up... that will get attention. go to www.myspace.com and search for people in your school. Talk to them, see whats up!
2006-08-08 04:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also never had a bf, and I'm 16, but it has been by choice, many guys have asked me out, you know what the trick is, you need to think that your the sh*t and other people will follow, but you can still be nice to people, one thing that attracts guys, I don't know why but put on some lip gloss when you look up when your finished guys will be staring at you, you need to talk to them, but don't make yourself too available, you can call them by the wrong name and then when they look at you say oops I thought you were someone else, go to after school activities alone or with a small group of friends, guys find girls more approachable when they are alone, but they want them more when they are unapproachable, so either way you win, you should wear a little makeup but not too much, maybe some foundation(very lightly with cover up stick) some eyeliner(very thin and only on the top of lashes) and some mascara, and some lip gloss, go and see some wrestling or basket ball games and cheer really loud, you should usually do this when you are with a friend so you aren't the only one doing it, if you are alone and loud you will come off a freakish but if you are with a friend you will come off as fun
2006-08-08 04:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst way to get a guy is trying to change yourself...When the right man comes along, you will know it. Don't change...stay the same. Wait for the boys to come to you. High school is a whole new world, and is yours for the taking. If a boy doesn't like you for who you are, he isn't the right one for you. Fate has ways of working itself out.
2006-08-08 04:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by schleef42004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a boyfriend so bad ? It wont make you any cooler,it wont help your grades,your young enjoy it, high school should be the time of you life !!
Get a real friend someone who will help you through these awkward years,someone who will make you laugh. If you just get a boyfriend to get one,you'll get laid, maybe pregnant and then be lonely with a ruined life.
2006-08-08 04:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by dogboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!I know it sounds cliche but u won't get anywhere trying to change yourself to make some guy like u!If a guy can't accept u for the beautiful young women you are then he's not worthy of u!
2006-08-08 04:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by murmic05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life after high school changes drastically. The cool kids arent cool anymore. The most poplular girls end up getting pregant and end up in horrible relationships. The nerdy kids become wealthy, everything just becomes as it should. Just focus on whats really important to you- not men- and everything will work out fine!
2006-08-08 04:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a huge smile on your face and carry yourself with extreme confidence! Know who you are and be proud of it! Show guys that you are interested in them and their life and be able to listen and not just talk about yourself. Guys love to believe they are important to you and that you care! Don't make yourself into something you are not because eventually you will get tired of living the lie!
2006-08-08 04:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by sibelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the guy to like you for you, then dont change at all, you're contradicting yourself...saying that you dont want to change but you want to change
Id have to see what you look like to give recommendations on looks
2006-08-08 04:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by sexydp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a long term relationship, ill suggest you one thing, dont like to be with someone who u like, try to get into those who likes u.
and if its just for time pass, then dont even dare to look at him, instead when someone looks at u just ignore. and when he is looking somewhere els try on him so tat he gets to know that u are looking at him. Be a attitude grl and see de diff.
2006-08-08 04:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by ABHI S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you should wait for a boyfriend. i went through highschool without a boyfreind and i am fine. its worth the wait. Highschool is about learning and trying to get into college. You should have guy friends but that is it. wait til your in college or out of highschool so there is no distractions for you.
2006-08-08 04:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋