no it has to be up to you and that has to be somthing you want
2006-08-08 04:02:59
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answer #1
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answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7
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Yes you can change! It's quite easy too. Don't look into the deep discussions of psychology or self help books yet. Just start out one step at a time. The good news is that the first step will produce results that everyone will notice. When people notice that you are changing, they will be more willing to be your friend. The first step involves two steps. First... start to distance yourself from your friends that also have bad personalities. Second, and the most easy.... Be Polite. It's simple. if you are polite like your mother taught you to be, then people will want to be around you. Good Luck
2006-08-08 11:08:09
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answer #2
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answered by marks3kids 5
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It's a lot of work but you can do it if you really want to. I dont know what you mean by a bad personality, but if you have issues that have made you act tough or mean or aloof, then you need to to work on why you are like that. Once you find out what makes you tick (therapy, support groups) then you'll start to change. Maybe a lot of it isnt your fault and you've been blaming yourself all this time. When you stop blaming yourself for stuff that isnt your fault, it's a HUGE relief
2006-08-16 09:44:41
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answered by Anonymous
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That is a difficult question to answer, mostly because you don't say what you think "a bad personality" is as opposed to "good personality". If you want to accept change, you can do so. The easiest way is to seek professional help if it is really a "personality" problem.
2006-08-08 11:06:56
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answered by Wiz 7
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it is not so hard, it is very easy. when you trying to be a bad guy you're always showing a bad attitude and people around you hate you ,but if you r a good guy and you do anything that is good people around you appriciate you bless you ,this give you fresh energy to work with twice ability, it bring charm in your life and changes your personality.
if you want to be a good guy ,remember one thing try to be in yourself and keep smiling no matter how bad the conditions are ,caz god always test his good guys by throwing problems to them and one more fact about the smile is that :- "a smile is like looking in a mirror ,if you give a smile you are likely to get one back".
don't do bad thing, don't show bad attitude. what is bad and what is good it's your self analysis.
analyse yourself and try to be good ,god will always be with you in form of a good friend
good luck
2006-08-16 10:54:27
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answered by Ravish 1
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It can happen, but you have to want it to happen, changing your personality, means changing the way you think, changing the way you and others view yourself and the way you live your life.......are you willing to change all that?????? i hope so because then you need to be good to all around you, help when others need help, listen, support, be there for people when they need you (and when they dont), do things for people simply because you can, not because you are going to get something in return.......people may question your motives for a while if you have always been this way, but if its something you TRUELY want, then the good will come shining through and it will be unmistakable. good luck
2006-08-08 11:08:01
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answered by Mintjulip 6
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yes it is. truthfully .why? because being who you have been is everyday,like eating,but being who you really want to be from the inside out is very very hard. nothing that is worth having will come easy. obviously, you know that you want to be better,that's a great beginning,most people don't see a need for change. visualize who you want to be and work on that everyday. do things different, respond differently to situations.different actions bring different results.
2006-08-08 11:07:53
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answered by punkin 5
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yes it is very difficult to change persinality
2006-08-08 11:04:46
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answered by p. j. 1
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Why bother? It's way easier to be bad. Think about it, all the good and fun stuff is so-called bad. Just think in reverse - what's bad is good and what's good sucks. Bad: it's the only way to go!
- Satan
2006-08-16 10:01:59
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answered by Squeeze 2
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per "sin" ality...
put that way, then yeah. being good or bad is obviously relative. but for the "run of the mill standard american pop culture," its not that hard just to smile and be nice. being bad... well as i dont know what "sins" you consider yourself to be committing, its hard to give advice. changing is easy... hard to accept sometimes... but easy to do.
change your environment and your behavior will change accordingly.
2006-08-16 08:31:46
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answered by Nick K 3
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slowly start being .good it doesn't take a day it will take a couple of months. it took me 2 months to start being bad and i still have some good in me.
2006-08-08 11:06:05
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answered by cartman 2
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