How do you make them work?
2006-08-08 03:46:59 · 19 answers · asked by exotic69n 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If anyone tells you a long distance relationship does not work it is because they tried and it did not work for them or they don't know what they are talking about. Long distant relationships work if people make them work. The trick is to keep in contact with your partner, sort out whatever problems you are having, be honest and truthful. if you get a chance to see you partner then cherish the time you have with them, do things together and create memories. Send cards or e-mails when necessary. Don't let anyone discourage you from pursuing a long distance relationship if you want to because they really can work.
2006-08-08 03:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you try and you both want it to work it can. I am in a long distance relationship right now and it's been almost two years and we are doing great. You just have to talk as much as possible and be very honest with each other. You also need to be able to trust each other. If you can do those three things you will be off to a great start because without that me and my bf wouldn't be as good as we are now. Hope I helped. Good Luck.
2006-08-08 11:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by muskie2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this person long distance from the beginning or have you been together and is now long distance? It makes a difference, if it's someone you met on line...it more than likely won't work! If you've been together for awhile and really know this person, you might have a chance but a slim one.
2006-08-08 10:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do people mean by it doesnt work!i know pple who had long distance relationships and have married.my own sister will get married next month and it was a long distance relationship!it all depends on both of you how bad you want the relationship to work.stay in touch,try as much as possible to see each other,and most important of all believe in God to make it work.BEST OF LUCK!
2006-08-08 10:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by onel2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no constant contact other than by phone... only way to stay faithful is to be faithful to yourself, and thats by not ending it, but realizing that a long distance frierndship is easier than relationship, and if you ever become close again in geogrphical sense then pick up where u left off and make him/her get a divorce, lol
2006-08-08 10:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't work unless you have a very strong foundation of years spent together first, and even then, only if it's temporary - like for 6 months, and then you still have to visit at least once a month. It's really REALLY hard, and usually not worth the heartache.
2006-08-08 10:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they only work if you want them to and must of the time they don't so it's better to be friends
2006-08-08 10:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can make um work if u keep um for a short time
2006-08-08 10:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you believe that now i'm in that situation and honestly it work. You know how? FAITHFULLNESS AND TRUST WITH EACH OTHER. Both of you must have that.
2006-08-08 10:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in contact with the other person and of course dont go on dates with other people. go see them when you can.
2006-08-08 10:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋