When you break up or get broken up with......?

Question

How do you get over it?

Answer 1

Time, and spending time with friends, or enjoying time alone. Try new experiences. Get out and do things to keep busy. Good luck.

PS I don't recommend going out with someone else just to get over the first person. It usually doesn't work out, and you make sumeone else unhappy besides yourself. I always avoid dating someone "on the rebound" - mine, or hers!

Answer 2

There has only been two people in my life and the first one i was with broke my heart after 5 years. I thought i could never get over him or any would want me after i had this first ones child, but someone great has come along and we have been together almost 10 years, and married 7. It just takes some time and alot of soul searching and alot of tears. Talk to a friend, get out and keep your mind busy for awhile and then you will see one day hey i moved on.

Answer 3

whew,that's pretty difficult to answer,but well every question sure does have an answer,well for someone who has a broken heart ,the easy way to get over it,is try to think of the bad times together and wonder why should even should i get so worried about him,occupy yourself with lots of interesting things and see your self in the mirror as a beautiful person and say positive things about yourself believing the person in question does not deserve you .the the best thing to do to get over a broken heart is to remember that what ever happens ,live goes on and there are so many fishes in the ocean time is one sure thing for a broken heart.

Answer 4

You have to put it outta sight and outta mind. Just don't think about it. Don't try to hold on to it. Try to refrain from doing things you 2 used to do together, or try not to visit places the 2 of you used to go together...Don't try to contact the person and it's impossible to be JUST friends immediately after a break up, so don't try that one either. Keep yourself busy..Hang out with friends, get a hobby, indulge in books, or try dating. That one always works. Whatever you decide to do, just know that a break up is not the end of the world. It may seem like it, but it's not...Lemme leave with with a quote to think about before I go... "Never make someone you're everything, because when they're gone you have nothing" This is what happens with a lot of people in relationships. When they're with someone, they tend to make that person their all..neglecting friends, family, or anything else. Therefore, when that person is no longer there, they feel that they have nothing to turn to. Just keep your head up and everything will work out for the best. Good luck!

Answer 5

Well let see for me I think about it and say to myself why did it happen 2 me and uhh usually i take a long walk to ease the pain then it happens naturally even those times where u thought that u had gotten over it u will still feel kinda bad

Answer 6

Breaking up is like dealing with a death...you have to go through the stages of grieving...pick yourself up call all your friends....go out and keep yourself busy....if you happen to run into the ex, just smile say hi and keep on walking...never let them see your pain...love will find you again...but love yourself first and the rest is easy

Answer 7

u broke up coz of some kinda trouble u had between both of u. understand that, n also that u cudnt have had a wonderful time together even if u continued to b together...so just feel happy u broke up.thats how u get over it. n try to make him/her ur friend again!

Answer 8

Doing things for yourself-get out of the house and get a facial, call friends and hit a bar, get involved in a hobby. . . and soon you'll forget "what's-his-name"!

Answer 9

Time. Stay busy doing things you like to do, just for YOU. Sometimes you'll meet someone else doing them (like at the gym).

Answer 10

Start dating someone else. No one's perfect, maybe you'll see qualities in the new person that your ex didn't have. It's tough, but it never killed anyone before.