My boyfriend and I were making out the other night, and things were getting pretty intense. He was really breathing very heavily and softly moaning. He was on top of me (we were both wearing our clothes), and he was touching my butt and breasts. He didn't touch me anywhere else, and I didn't touch him down there.
After like 10 minutes of intense making out he got off of me and layed down beside me, he looked pretty exhausted. That's when he told me he had an orgasm from our make-out session that night. He appologized and seemed really embarrassed about it...why? I told him there was nothing to be embarrassed about. Is it possible he could have actually had one just from making out, especially since I didn't even touch him down there or was he making that up?
My second question is what are signs that your man is having or just had an orgasm, besides ejactulation. All I've done with a guy is make out (I'm 16), so I'm pretty sexually inexperienced and I was just wondering
2006-08-08 03:31:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very possible at that age! Gets less likely as you grow older and your body adapts to the hormones. I am not a teenager anymore...but back before the days of easily available birth control, we called it "dry humping." And both partners could orgasm...if you were lucky:).
Be nice if you could continue this, keep your virginity for the "BIG ONE" even if this is the big one getting started. And it is WAY safe sex.
PS> Reading between the lines, you are a very cool person. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy that you care so much.
Good luck to you both. Hope it is a lasting relationship!
Oh...and the second question...heavy breathing, grimaces of the eyes and lips (if he is uninhibited enough to let himself really go with it) stiffening of the entire body, a few spasms as aftershocks, a big exclamation of joy or relaxation (as in "oh, Geez was that awesome!") and hopefully a desire to hold you, tell you he loves you and maybe even say thank you. some people don't like being thanked for an orgasm...but it is a precious gift. Please know if he says "thank you" he probably really respects you and cares about you.
2006-08-08 03:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by photonic_beam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's possible, and for a guy, I'm sure it is quite embarrassing for him to do that, even though you all were only "making out". You were sweet for telling him not to worry about it. It probably made him feel better about it. I dont think a man can have an orgasm, without ejactulation. I'm not sure, though. But, for me, I'm a female, I think that sometimes the feeling right before orgasm is better than actually having one, maybe it's the same for guys. I don't know.
Just for further references, there's nothing wrong with making out, but don't let this turn in to a hobby or something that you do with all your boyfriends. You will ruin your reputation!! Even though you're not having sex with them all.
2006-08-08 03:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible that he had one; the only outward signs (other than a damp spot on his clothes) would be if you felt any rhythmic pulsing from around his groin of if he had any muscular spasms. The sudden exausttion was a big sign, though.
He was embarrassed because he probably didn't expect that to happen; the first time he actually has sex, it will probably happen quickly, also. All of this is normal, so don't worry; if you are willing to talk about things, you can have him well taught to actually please you before he ejaculates by the time you're in your mid-20's.
2006-08-08 03:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely. he was probably humping on you, I'm guessing. A man's genials can be stimulted through pants because it's on the outside and ladies are protected/covered by the labia, which makes it just a little harder to get to. So, rubbing through pants on a guy can absolutely give him an orgasm. Besides I'm willing to bet you really got him hot and turned on because your such a hottie!
2006-08-08 03:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not only possible it is probable. given the age i would say that yes he did, you got him all worked up and in his mind the two of you were indeed having sex so therefor what is going to happen he is going to have an orgasm. an orgasm is not just ejaculation it has a lot to do with your emotions and your mental pyche.
as a matter of fact a person can have an orgasm w/o even ejaculating.
2006-08-08 03:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by rich_goodman2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason he had an orgasm is because he intensely stimulated by the makeout session. it is also possible that during the time that he was on top of you that his 'grinding' on you through clothing may have acted much like masterbation causing his orgasm
2006-08-08 03:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Debbapoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Just think; when you really go all the way, you are going to make him explode! Hopefully, he can give you some enjoyment in return. Good luck."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-08 03:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a 16 years old girl you ought to stay as you are until you're old enough to enter into full relations.
2006-08-08 03:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, holding the penis or clamping it or something like that does not work and can damage his internal plumbing. Needs to be a team effort, if he is getting close, either he needs to slow down or the girl does to prolong the sex.
2016-03-27 03:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bonnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the second time I've seen this question from you. You need to give your BF some relief other than dry humping, poor guy.
2006-08-08 03:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋