when we have sex were happy for a week then were mad again but we don't want to have sex because we want to wait till we are older. or possibly till after marrage. we try to stop but everytime it just gets worse we are out of ideas. someone plz help give us some sujestions.
2006-08-08 03:29:02 · 23 answers · asked by badboykoster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up
2006-08-08 03:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by in_TIM_idation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you mean ("when we have sex we're happy for a week"). You use only the word sex. You didn't say make love or even allude to the word love. You show a behavior pattern that is cyclical - anger, sex - anger, sex. No explanation was given about what you two are mad about. It is not a healthy relationship. Marriage should not even be an option for you two.
Both of you should move on and I would advise both of you to learn how to communicate to others because I believe the problems reflect a juvenile approach to relationships with a deep inability to understand the needs of each other as individuals. That's a fancy way of saying grow up learn how to listen, respect, and nurture a potential mate.
2006-08-08 03:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you constantly mad at each other i would say break up go find someone you can be happy with , without having to have sex.i was in a marriage like that and i just had to get away or there would have been a chance i would have hit her and i'm not that type of guy . so for both of your sakes get out of the relationship before you do something you will regret.
2006-08-08 03:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by rich_goodman2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you two mad about? Is it something that can be solved? Talk things out... Sometimes letting a relationship go for a while can be a real eye opener as to WHY things werent working out, and possibly find a solution to fix them. Good luck.
2006-08-08 03:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u guys staying together and alone?if yes,that's the first thing to stop because u will never stop having sex if u guys are left alone like this.trust me..u can kiss alot,hugs,go OUT OF the house and bed or whatever sex venue u can possibly have and do something else..
all the best..
2006-08-08 03:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship has problems that sex can't "fix." Please sit down and talk w/your girlfriend about what the source of your anger and discontent are. Evaluate objectively whether you have anything substantial between you. Sex is never the glue that holds a troubled relationship together. Seek the counsel of others wiser than yourselves. Good Luck!
2006-08-08 03:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks as if you guys need to sit and talk about the things goin on in your relationship. Sex might be a good option but ,it's not always the solver.
2006-08-08 03:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date someone unless they are the best friend you have in the world. You're both just wasting your precious time and youth being unhappy. And even older people don't have sex to make them happy - they have sex AFTER they've found someone who makes them happy!
2006-08-08 03:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does'nt sound like either of you are happy in the relationship. Talk to her about it. If your still mad, maybe you should move on.
2006-08-08 03:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpettuitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married have lots of sex and you will be very happy if thats the only thing that make the both of you happy
2006-08-08 03:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourselves a new bf and gf for you both until you grow older and wiser and then you go back to each other.
2006-08-08 03:34:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋