We live together, we are adults. But we hardly ever have sex. I'm talking maybe twice a month, if I'm lucky. Even when we first got together, we weren't "doin' it like rabbits", or anything. Often enough there is an excuse I understand...too drunk, too tired from working a nine hour shift. But there is only so much a person can take! But all I want/need is once a week. That isn't too much to ask, is it? I need something that will drive him wild, so that he can't rest until we "get the job done". Please help!
2006-08-08 03:22:00 · 19 answers · asked by V 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take yourself shopping for the day!! Spoil yourself with lots of sexy underwear and some nice short skirts and theres the first hurdle clearly jumped!!
Then later that evening, while hes relaxing in front of the tv, nip up and have a shower before slipping into some of your sexy presents you brought yourself, then call him upstairs and ask him what he thinks.... then once he realises what you have on underneath the new clothes you are showing him-i doubt if he will need much egging on from there!!
Take control-you start kissing him, start taking his top off, kissing his chest gradually going lower....
U just need to use your imagination really-sex between you both has became habit hasn't it, you just need to be more spontanious!!
When you fancy a bit, then you need to do something about it....when hes on the phone or something, undo his zip, kneel in front of him and give him a taster of what he will get once hes finished on the phone!! That usally makes pretty steamy sex....
2006-08-08 03:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by elliemay_grant 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
These may be kinda hard to swallow, but these are potetial reason that your man only wants sex twice a month. Possible reasons:
1.) He's cheating
2.) You're REALLY bad in bed
3.) He's just not into sex, period
4.) He's just not into you (see no.1)
5.) He's gay
Now I realize that there may be other explanations but these are probably the most likely ones. Also, for the record, 50% of couples that cohabitated together fail after two years. My advise: Lose the loser.
2006-08-08 03:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that's really undemanding.. merely about any guy receives became on with the help of this. contact him .. would not even could be acceptable on his ingredient jus like contact his leg or rub his arm or something like that. OR that's what occurred to me she needed to "wrestle" so after about 5 minutes of that i replaced into on brick... Seducing a guy is amazingly undemanding... AND in case you go with some sex out of him lol jus tell him u wanna do it and as long as your no longer hedius i am going to easily about assure he will provide it to u.
2016-11-23 15:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy must either be too pre-occupied with other things to have time for s*x. Make the first move.
If after all the times you tried and still you notice that he hardly has the interest to do it, then something else is wrong. It could be physical in nature (with him) or probably emotional (him again).
2006-08-08 03:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't going to tell you as you chicks know too many tricks. Anyhows, ok, ok, this is a genuine case. Well put on pantyhose [nothing else], and do things for a while whilst it starts working on his mind. Then when he starts looking, pretty intensly, at you and he's panting slightly; then just take hold of him and start massaging his man-hood...... I hate myself for telling you all that. No, I don't. Heck, see how emotional it get's a guy?.... Anyhows, I've a pretty strong willed mind, but I can't defend myself against my wife when she does that. I'd be ok if she didn't start grasping things.
2006-08-08 03:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spontaneous sex like slipping into a hot negligee without undies and cooking him a candle lights dinner and slipping him a Viagra tablet inside a Chinese spring roll. Anything goes.
2006-08-08 03:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to do some dirty dancing. Buy a short skirt and a button-down shirt that you have no intention of actually buttoning. Show off what you've got.
And take away his liquor. If he's got whiskey ****, then that's a sign that he's an alcoholic. Bad for him anyway.
2006-08-08 03:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Brian L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasize about other guys and let him know about it to the fullest detail. That could be a good wake up call for him. His jealous nature could ignite a night of hot sex. A lot of men fantasize about their partners doing it with other men. It would reawaken his "hots" for you.
2006-08-08 03:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Hunk J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take charge tell him you demand he lay there and let you take advantage whisper it into his ear when you are laying together or when you go shopping or something anywhere touch him in public it'll turn him on and do what you can to him like everything during it what you would want done to you give him something to lookforward to next time
2006-08-08 03:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by mystico6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty things you can do... You can do a strip tease, perform oral, or just tell him that you'd like to have sex a little more often.
2006-08-08 03:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋