ok so i dated this guy on and off for alittle over a year. i was his longest relationship and we could tell each other nething. Well we broke up because he moved away and found someone else. well now hes back and when he first came back he said he didnt want to be with me for whatever reasons. well now if i call him ha makes sure to call me back. we just hung out together yesterday and i really miss him. he was kinda flirting with me but im not sure if he would want to try it again. i just want to know what you guys think if i should try it again and how do i say something to him or start out the conversation? i used to be really good at that. but with him now it a different story. i miss him and i still love him but it feels weird because it feels like we should be all over each other. please help me out!?
2006-08-08 03:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it depends on the guy sweeetheart. I believe that once love is over, it can always be ressurected. However, some guys get their pride hurt along with their heart, which makes them apprehensive to the whole idea of getting back together. Continue to hang out with the guy and more than likely he will begin to miss you more and more. From what i can tell, you didn't break his heart so it is worth a try. Go for it, however, stay on your guard and try not to get yourself hurt anymore.
2006-08-08 03:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wth go for it. you only live once just make sure when you go into something like this don't expect too much cuz you might get hurt in the process. i'd just hang out with him a lil more. stay out late and see if he makes a move if not just stay out act sleepy and lean on him and see what he dose... i'm not all that good at this, but i say go for it baby!!! get out there and live life, gl =)
2006-08-08 10:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I've got lovers from 16 years ago I still miss, you're on your own. By personal experience, you can never go home again
2006-08-08 10:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Auggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm, it might be safe to not go out with him right now because of the moving situation and he said he didn't want to date. i would wait. if things get better and you really really really think that you should go out then talk to him about it. say something like "what are you thinking about? what do you think about what is going on between us", or something like that. its not just your decision whether you date or not. you both have to agree and work something out.
2006-08-08 10:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out ask him "Hey, do ya wanna hook back up, or what?" Let him know you really missed him and tell him how you feel. You'll never know unless you ask!
2006-08-08 10:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by grizzly_r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, it sounds like he feels the same way.
2006-08-08 10:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave this guy alone if he wanted you he would have stayed with youst move on
2006-08-08 10:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. he's just messing with your emotions. you'll find someone else. he's not the only person on earth.
2006-08-08 10:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋