I've been seeing this guy for about three months. Everything has been pretty good up to this point. I would really like us to be in a deeper relationship, but I don't know if he wants the same thing. . Anyways, we got into an argument the other day because he CAN be a little insensitve at times I hung up on him and we haven't spoken. It has been a couple days and he has not called. I want to call and work things out but all of my friends tell me NO. I heard through a grapevine that he went to the movies with his ex girlfriend this past weekend and it is driving me nuts!. I KNOW she wants him back. He has told me he won't go back to her BUT then why r they going to movie?! I'm going crazy. 'm afraid by sitting on the fence I'll lose him. So help me! What do I do? Maintain military silence to see if he truly cares or make the effort to work things out?
2006-08-08
02:49:24
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Freespirit
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You know it is funny. Most guys say to be the bigger person but girls say to do the opposite? Guys, even though I did go off on him I DID have a valid reason too. My methods may have been extreme but my issues with him were valid. I want to work things out but I NEED him to understand what I was upset about as well. If by apologizing does it minimize my stance on the subject? I want to be with him but not as a doormat.
2006-08-08
10:37:50 ·
update #1