Me and my ex broke up a week ago, the reason i left him i cause i fell in love with his friend, so i thought i would be best if i just stayd away, but now he want me to come over to his house, the friend that i am in love with told him that i am only going to hurt him again so he must not try and even be friends with me, but they do not know that i left my ex cause of the friend. so now i have no idea what to do. I wanna go but i think it is for the wrong reason, please help.
2006-08-08 02:45:44 · 12 answers · asked by joanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really really shouldnt go... u know its all coz of temptation n not coz u can help... u'll only end up hurting both, ur past n ur present man... dont do it plz
2006-08-08 02:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you would like to but you just can't. You are trying to think clearly and you don't feel that this situation would help at all and you just need time to think without distractions, and he would be a distraction i'm sure. This is a hard spot to be in. To have liked someone and then turn around and like his friend. Sounds like your kinda stuck between a rock and a hard spot that's for sure. Best of luck.
2006-08-08 02:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, thats messed up. More than likely, you will end up hurting him again if you let him know that you are in love with his friend so juust stay away. why do you want to go? More than likely he wants you over there so he can make amends so just avoid the whole situation sweety.
2006-08-08 02:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even waste your time going over there. Simply put. You are in love with his friend. You have already betrayed him unbeknownst to him. Why go further with it and you know that he would be devastated to learn that you have left him for his friend. You should never leave someone you love for someone you like. Also, if this is easy for you to do, don't do it. It's not right.
2006-08-08 02:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a relationship expert but your situtation looks grim. I would not go back to your ex's house and find other options to get it in his head that's its over. Exploring a relationship with his friend probably isn't a good idea, but love is a powerful force. good luck.
2006-08-08 02:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should NOT go. You broke up with him, leave him alone. Allow him the opp to heal, too. If you think going over is going to change how you feel about His friend, you are wrong.
2006-08-08 02:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by mommas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go his friend is right. You did the right thing by getting out of the relationship.
2006-08-08 02:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your a grimey person.......leaving someone for their friend. but it'll all backfire on you watch. so i think you should go over there and explain to him why you left him. than he'll see what kind of person you r and he'll never want 2 c u again,okay?
2006-08-08 02:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by *+*sArAh*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO not go. its hard but once you say no and develop a habit of turning him down and ignoring him and his friend( dont date his friend. it will hurt your him more) Stay away and find a new guy.
You can do it.
2006-08-08 03:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a great future as a script writer for soap operas.
2006-08-08 02:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋