2006-08-08 02:33:00 · 17 answers · asked by lio123_03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband says that by 3 months he knew he wanted to marry me. we didn't get engaged until we'd been together over a year.
my dad got married twice with dating under a year and both times they failed. So i'd say "I love you and I want to be with you but it is too soon to make this a life long commitment. Lets get to know eachother better first. If we're still together in a year ask me then."
2006-08-08 02:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how much I care for this person at the time, if I still feel like there is a lot of things I don't know about him then I would be a little freaked out, like No way dude we have to really get to know each other first. But if I truly love him and I feel prepared for that big step in my life then sure why not, I'd say yep!!!
2006-08-08 09:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband eluded to the fact he wanted to get married after a month of dating. But he finally asked me four months into the relationship. However, we had known each other on a different level for several years.
But if we had not known each other before, it probably would have scared me away.
2006-08-08 09:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say no and tell them 5 months isnt long enough and that after i'm with them a year i'd think about it but the more you wait the more you know about the person to know if you want to marry them or not i also think you have to live with someone first cause how do you know how they live are what they do that will piss you off til you live with them
2006-08-08 09:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, My husband and I knew each other only 9 days before he asked me to marry him. His late wife had passed away on April 4th.(she had always told him if anything happened to her to find someone who would take care of him and love him for him.) they were supposed to renew their vows on May 7th,the day we first got together. whats weird is that I had driven 150 miles to meet his friend,who turned out to be a loser.and on may 7th, we had our first kiss and we both knew then that love at first sight happens. and took the day as a sign that it was meant to be. We married on May 16th. And it has been wonderful so far.
and as far as how would I act, I said yes before he got it all the way out of his mouth. We saw the chain of events as a sign from our higher power,(God, if you will.) And we couldn't be happier. And I feel we will last the rest of our days.
2006-08-08 09:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by jaguaramaria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's to short of a time to plan a wedding so soon, however, if you feel this is someone you would definitely consider to marry..plan on a long engagement to assure you get to know all their quirks..set a wedding date a year from proposal...if they haven't proven to be marriage material then let him know to slow down we need to get to know one another before we make life long plans...good luck.
2006-08-08 09:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my husband around five months when we got married.
2006-08-08 09:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how you feel. If you feel the same, accept. If you think it's too early, tell him/her. If you're uncomfortable with the idea, tell him/her that, in a nice way.
2006-08-08 09:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is not about how long u have been together. it is more about how well do u know each other. to commit to something that may last forever...........if u do not feel that way.......... or the thing "forever" puts u off, than think again...........lol
2006-08-08 09:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by thatgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would laugh and then say no. Its way to early for that sort of commitment.
2006-08-08 09:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋