I guess I like girls more than guys. Beautiful girls always attract my attention! Since most people are straight, I don't know what I can do except looking at the girls.
2006-08-08 02:32:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I like girls more than guys. Beautiful girls always attract my attention! Since most people are straight, I don't know what I can do except looking at the girls.
added: I didn't make clear that I am fine with the fact that I am a lesbian. There are always girls attractive to me. But I never tell any of them my feelings on them. I know there must be some homo communities/bars. But I don't like the way to meet people. I want to have a girlfriend. But I don't know how. I don't be alone. Must I make the first step in my life? It sounds quite hard to me. I am shy.
2006-08-08 06:32:52 · update #1
I envy kecik_dws! I want a gf too. I think I am hopeless and desperate. Unless someone has crush on me...not likely to happen. What other people need me for?
2006-08-08 07:15:57 · update #2
You'd be surprised how common ur feeling are, try looking up some local websites and see whose on there, you're gonna take a lot of hardships with this but if you're happy then that is all that matter.
2006-08-08 02:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you ever had a boyfriend? B/c if you haven't then maybe you are a lesbian, I mean analyze your life carefully. B/c a unanalyzed life is just not worth living sometimes, don't you think. It's nothing wrong to be one if you are just try to gahter up friends and other woemn that feel the same way like a support group. To discuss these feelings and see if youy can find a mate, I mean why not...You must love yourself and accept yourself the way you are, right...
2006-08-08 02:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do but to go about what you like. It's who you are. Don't even hide it or fret about it. There will always be beautiful girls where you live but it is entirely up to you to do something about it. There should be a LGBT community in your area that you can involve yourself in. There is a website full of LGBT individuals that I will direct you to. www.downelink.com You can continue to look at girls all you want but be very cautious when selecting a date. Good luck!
2006-08-08 02:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean i've had similar feelings for years, you know the “am I guy, am I straight” thing. I believe I don’t have to me either if I like a girl so be it, if I like a guy that’s fine too. People are people it doesn’t matter what sex they are.
2006-08-08 02:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by becloseau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've seen women come on to each other in straight bars...love/attraction/horniness shines thru.just give out the rite vibes...if u want a "butch" go to a gay bar...yeah...i know there are "femmes" there too...but ya'll know what i mean.Personally,i love men too much to be attracted to women,but there is always one or two worth a second look
2006-08-08 02:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by BellaDonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only be beforehand with the lady you like. Come real out and tell her which you come across her very captivating. you will comprehend at present if she likes you like that or no longer. there is likewise web content which you would be able to get on which you would be able to fulfill people who're involved in you. good success!!
2016-12-11 05:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by karsten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not go to a gay bar, if you legal...
failing that, put your details on the net (but watch out for the weirdo men pretending to be women)...
or go to the gay/lesbian section on here and put your question up again...
2006-08-08 02:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever ur heart desires
2006-08-08 02:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sexy hot and don't wear something cute and hang around her
then if your lucky she may also like you
2006-08-08 04:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by baby g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say how old you are but speaking from my own life i say be yourself
2006-08-08 02:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋