I had a dream I blew my head off with a gun...I know I feel like crap a lot, so should I do it?

Question

I feel devestated sometimes...I feel like this world is already a mess, so why stay in it. In my dream I couldn't take it no more so I put the gun under my chin, and pulled the trigger...I don't think I'd ever have the guts to do this, but in the dream there was no more worries or pain anymore.

Answer 1

Everyone seems like they are alone in the world and that nothing and noone cares but take into consideration that what would people do without you to be there for them. You probably help more people than you think. So my answer is no if you feel sad and alone see a doctor and talk it over with them. It helps to talk with others.

Answer 2

No! And if your doing drugs an stuff, ya head will be messed. Yes the world on a whole can be shitty, disturbing, frightening. We all at some stage in life go through those emotions of why bother. But in our own small way we can make a difference in our own circles of life. If there is something troubling you then go get help, if you can chat with somebody close to you then go do that. Just a thought, but what if we do have a spirit and all the pains of our life doesn't die with the physical body. People like to say that with death has to come peace, but what if it's only a door that those that are left behind don't see. All the best to ya, hope what eva is troubling u gets sorted.

Answer 3

No. Believe me, i've been there. Yeah it might be the easy way out, but what's the point in just ending it? The truth is no one really has that much time here in the first place, so why cut it short? Things can certainly get rough sometimes, again i've been there, but you just have to try to live for the sake of living. Have fun with life, don't take anything too seriously and if all else fails; live to help others. If you truly don't care about yourself, (which should never be the case) then devote your life to helping other people get through their lives. Go out and do everything you can to make someone else happy. Make someone smile. That's what i live for, making people's days better and it is remarkably rewarding. Even if they dont notice, or give a thankyou, hold the door open for someone, or complement a complete stranger on their hair. If you can't seem to brighten your own day, brighten someone else's and just see how good it feels to make someone else smile. 8o)

Answer 4

this is definitely not a situation you should try to face alone.

We should feel privaledged that you are so open about this problem with us.

You have a problem. You need to admit that and call someone right now who you know will support you and who has the ability to put you instantly on the right track.

You need professional help. But this is something that you can get over. Many people get over this feeling every day more than once a day.

I had the same dream nightly for almost a year, it vanished when i lost my fear of confiding it in someone close to me. When I realised how wrong it was to think about this course of action, the dreams stopped coming.

Find something so compelling for you to achieve. Help someone or a group of people in a way that only you can do. Use your life in valuable service of others.

Your life is valuable while you are alive.
I am sure I could use your help in my business. There, you already have a list of one person who you can help.

Damian

Answer 5

You are misreading the dream - - - the gun is a means of forcing something into your brain - - - Knowledge - - - The Dream is telling you that You need to shove some learning into your brain. Only through knowledge will you find the ability to enhance your life so that no longer feel devastated by a world in chaos. Success shields the rich from a world in chaos. Other than shedding a fear tears the rich don't suffer all that much in a chaotic world. They can afford body armor massive hummvees security in the green zone high above waters rising due to Global Warming. So pluck up, be of good cheer, only the poor need to suffer. Peace.

Answer 6

I believe that if God intended you to be here in this world then you know that you have a destiny. I was like you once adnd literally tried to kill myself especailly having dreams about them. But pretty much your just going through a bad stage of your life that makes you feel like your worthless and don't deserve to live any long. Some things that just makes you want to take your life over someone else. But your still here now. Just think that if you did kill yourself, then you wouldn't get to do what y ou planned to do in life. Like for instance, If you always wanted to be a dress designer, or an artist, or even a actress. You would mess up your life just to kill a dream you always had since you were a little girl. But keep your head up and don't worry so much about what people say or do to you, because your a better person than what they are to you. People wants you to be misserable so they can laugh at you because they know that your not going to make it in life. Just think that if you killed yourself, then those very people that pressured you in to think like that will still be living the same life as gthey get older regretting things.

Answer 7

suicide is never the answer. If your that unhappy, do something about it. Get help - talking to a counselor. Do something that you love to make yourself happy. Do something to stop the feelings of depression that you have. Only you can change this honey so I would suggest that you try what I'm telling you. When you feel badly, talk to someone or even pet an animal. I know that sounds kind of stupid but really it helps. Yesterday I was very depressed. I had so much pain I didn't care if I lived or died. My dog came up to me and sat on my lap. His loving ways made me feel so much better. My daughter was consoling too. She was there with me and I knew she wanted to help me. You can't let it get the best of you. Just take one day at a time and talk to someone. Please don't do anything drastic. You never get a second chance. Take care.

Answer 8

Ehm....NO!!!!

Yes, you're right: the world's a piece of crap right now, but nothing is so bad as to just quit trying. You had that dream BECAUSE you think about it a lot, not as a sign you should do it.
If you are that unhappy put yourself in a situation where you won't have time to think about it, or find some volunteer work where you can make a difference, even if it is on a small scale.

Answer 9

It is just a dream and dreams bubble around what you think about. Life can be an interesting experience and you don't want to cut it short in any event. I have felt like you on any number of occasions but I have discovered that it is more fun to make somebody else actually do what you suggest than to do it yourself. I am Danish and perverse by nature I guess.

Answer 10

There would be no more worry or pain...for you ...maybe...but this is NEVER an option!!!!! Your dream is just a very REAL cry for help from your mind!!!! You need to talk with someone who is trained to help you understand these feelings that overwhelm you. Yes the world is very messed up, but we must go on living. There are people who love you and care about you very much, and THEY would be devastated if something terrible happened to you. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
You should not do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every community has a hot line... I will give you the numbers to two national hot lines....PLEASE CALL!!!!

1-800-SUICIDE***** or ******1-800-273-TALK ******

Please call them now...Do it for ME.....PLEASE!!!!!!! I do not know you but, I care....Be very honest with them and very direct...
You are not ALONE in this...Your life is valuable!!!! You have MANY reasons to live and you CAN live AND have PEACE in your mind at the same time...Let someone help you discover these......please....if you need to talk afterward..please email me and I will answer....You can count on me to support you and help you through this crisis...make the call now....please.....and then let me hear from you that you HAVE...I am waiting....I care....