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I lived with my wife for 18 yrs and i have 4 children with her. when she went to australia in 2002 for a resettlement someone took her.as his wife. she used to insult and abuse me on phone and sometimes she could call and talk to me nicely but we could not talk any word about our relationships. we had conlict with her about cheatings before she went to australia. she claimed i loved her sister.and that was the cause.
soon i will go to australia what will i do ? should i take that man to court when i reach there ? should i go there and live alone ? she said when i go there i should not go to her home. whats up now what will i do cause i still love my wife . i cried for forgivenesses tens times but she failed to forgive.when i keep quiet for months she could call or email me.

2006-08-08 02:22:25 · 4 answers · asked by ramathan l 1 in Family & Relationships Family

4 answers

Hey,
She left you remember!
Why should you go chasing her half way across the world when she makes it as plain as day that she doesnt love you.
She sounds very intimidating and controlling,if she had proof that you and her sister were having or had an affair dont you think she would have used it against you by now!
The only reason you should persue this is to get contact with your children,you are the only father they are ever going to have no matter what happens.
If she has cheated on you before then you can bet that this trip and affair were planned for a while,no woman will leave an entire country to move thousands of miles away with 4 kids unless there is a plan put together.
I really dont think you should persue this woman,you should seek to see your children and leave this woman to her own devices.
What goes around comes around and this woman will get what coming to her but you must look after yourself and dont chase something thats not worth chasing.

2006-08-08 02:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0 0

I think its time to look past your wife and just think about how you can continue being there for your children. Good luck and I hope you find a nicer girlfriend in the future.

2006-08-08 02:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0 0

I would just let her go. Its not worth the heartache. She cheated on you, and that is good grounds for divorce. I feel for you man, but there r better women out there for you.

2006-08-08 02:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0 0

Divorce her, she is not worth it, all she is doing is causing you headache, best to get on with your life

2006-08-08 02:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by paki 5 · 0 0

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