4 years ago i met a hardcore alcoholic, but i grew to love him. Went through alot. We had a somewhat physical thing. Well, now he tries to be sober, now he doesn't want anything physical and only wants to be friends. He flirts with everyone, has tried to go to bed with someone 1/2 his age. I find it hard to let go, even though i know he's treated me bad and i'm better than to put up with this. He's totally in love with himself, loves looking at pictures of himself, or in the mirror etc. Has got a problem even talking about sex, let alone performing. How do i just pretend he doesn't exist so i can move on?
2006-08-08 02:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by pj's 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it seems that u r obssessed with him, though he does not even care about you. its high time for you to move on. its goin to be hard since u have done so much for him...by walking away from him its no way going to be ur fault. remember uve got a life ahead, DONT sacriface it for a loser.by the way i appreciate the nature of ur love...loving a looser is not that easy. but DO NOT love a looser who does not care, who does not even value a wonderful person like you. time for u to move on, get a life:)
good luck
2006-08-08 02:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a unhealthy relationship and should move on because your health and mind can suffer as a result of this relationship.
Your self esteem need a immediate boost to show you that you deserve better as a human being and if you can love someone who doesn't treat you healthy, your a hardcore love addict who need to go cold turkey and find a better mate who will love you the way you want to be and show you respect.
2006-08-08 09:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what sweetie at first it's going to be hard , but think about it this way, this is something you have to do, at times we need to do what best for our yourself. You don't need to be treated like that. You need to forget about this guy, put him behind ,tell her yourself you worth better than him . and yes sometimes we fall in love with the wrong people, it's just part of life, everyone make mistakes, but i do hope you learn from it.stop calling him or seeing him , spend time with your friends or family.
Good luck.
2006-08-08 09:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by princess11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to make the decision and act on it. At first you'll cry alot and feel totally alone but as you meet other people the pain lessens until one day you find yourself thinking of him and its not as bad as it used to be.
2006-08-08 09:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in feeling for someone who does not respect ur feelings. When ur feelings are not respected they do not deserve them.
Ur life wud be more happier wen u live witha person who loves u rather than being with a person whom u love.... - SUPERSTAR
2006-08-08 09:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by mika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess all u have to do LOVE ur self. If u would love ur self u wouldn't be in this situation,no one should treat u that way don't u think so...........don't u deserve much more. Good luck girl.
2006-08-08 09:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by thatgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far can you walk? Walk as far as you can that way, even if you want to see him, it'll be hard to do for you, and in the end you wont get hurt!
2006-08-08 09:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi since you kno the negative side about him, if u feel ur heart yearning for him, just remember all the negative stuff, it will put u off.
2006-08-08 09:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by marxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowly walk away and pretend that he does not matter. tell yourself that he is nothing to you. if you tell yourself something you will start to believe it
2006-08-08 09:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being honest about your feelings and not looking back.
2006-08-08 09:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋