Do you ever feel not good enough when looking at some models, actresses, or movie stars?

Question

I recently was looking at this new and up coming artit, and felt a rush of envy..then instant sadness. This girl is so beautiful...and i feel so bad comparing myslef to others, but I do, and when I do I feel not good enough..like I dont't measure up to look like them...i fell like I'd be bettter off dead.

Answer 1

join the club,honey...
but you know sth?we shouldn't feel this way!you are far better than all these girls!!!

Answer 2

If you spent hours every morning in a chair while your hair dresser puts every strand of hair in perfect place. Your make up artist covered every single little flaw. Not to mention the ward robe assistant altering your clothes to fit you and only you. Then you're off to the tanning spa!! There goes your entire morning. Is this what your really want? As my wonderful husband explained to me one time when I was feeling insecure... "Beauty comes from within, your eyes are the windows to you soul". In other words if your eyes don't shine bright with content and inner peace, you appear to be hard or hateful. You can have all the outer beauty there is, but without inner beauty to shine through, it doesn't give off good Karma. Some people feel intimidated by outward beauty, some shy away because of fear of being turned away or snubbed. Now this is not true for all beautiful people by any means. There are a lot of beauties out there that know how they truly look with out the camouflage and their inner beauty does shine through. But, have you ever noticed most of these beauties have to "Prove" their sincerity 99% of the time. Enjoy your life and enjoy the God given beauty you possess. You are unique. We all are. If we all looked alike this would sure be a boring world! Be thankful for who you are and for your friends and loved ones who accept you for who and what you are. And, always remember..... EVERYBODY on this earth feel they have a flaw or too. Some choose to hide it and some don't.

Answer 3

Why would you want to be anything like a celebrity???? They are so fake....they dont even love themselves!

Just because they look beautiful to you it doesnt mean they are.....im sure you are beautiful inside and out, and guess what ? Beauty on the inside is really what counts in a world like the one we have now........be good and kind to others, help out wherever and whenever you can, and when you have a bad day (everyone does), rely on you friends and family to pull you through, because when it all comes down to it, noone will ever love you more for just being you.......cheer up hon, you really dont need to look or have the fame of a celebrity....be yourself that will get you through the major trials in life.

Answer 4

This happens to most people. The Beautiful People are set up like gods in our society. But don't forget that they're not gods. Look beyond the beauty and the apparent glamor and you'll see people who have morning breath when they wake up, dread family reunions, worry about their weight, and sometimes get diarrhea and pimples--just like the rest of us. Plus, they have all the additional burdens of fame. Papparazi waiting around every corner to try to catch them at their worst, to exploit their every weakness for the world to see. The fawning smiles of false friends--they can't tell who is sincere and who just wants to catch hold of their shirt-tails. And when people talk about them, it's usually about shallow things--how they look, who they are dating, never how hard they work. The Beautiful People don't really live Beautiful Lives. That's an illusion.

Answer 5

hey listen taste is so individual seriously, yah ok the woman in the mag looks great but only according to cultural standards and not individual standards some peole may find her ugly..
not to mention that she has been airbrushed, has TONS of make up on, has amazing lighting, great photographer so she most definetely does not look that good in reality, and even if she does look quite good she is a model and most people dont look that good anyway!!!
Third what do you know about her personality, that is so important!!!
would you go out with a guy who was good looking but had no personality???
most probably not!!! and even if you did it prob only be a fling
i bet so-called good looking people get frustrated for being used only for their looks or appreciated only for their looks and their personality not counting.. so just cz someone is so-called good looking doesnt mean they are lucky in love
The right guy will one day come along and will love you for who you are completely...
so who cares about what anybody else thinks...
love yourself how you are and others will see this confidence and people will pick up on that and be attracted to it...
make the most of what you got, love it, appreciate it, cultivate it and NOT give a crap about anybody else you cant please everybody and why would you want to, please yourself first of all
cliche phrase but its true you gota love yourself 1st
anyway you get the gist....
bet you have much more personality than these lame brain models anyway :P :) :)

Answer 6

Nope I want people to take me for what I am.. If i'm not good enough (as I am) for them then to hell with them.

You should never feel that you are not good enough for anybody.. Be yourself ..and don't lie to anybody.

PS you probably would not recognize them before the make up----- ps2 I went with a beautiful woman(whenI was younger) but the person who woke up beside me was just your ordinary woman Think of all the money that you are saving not having to do what they have to do everyday

Answer 7

Why should I feel bad about myself because of the way they look?? I dont. I feel great about myself. Just think of all the money they had to pay the plastic surgeons to make them look that way. They have further to fall in looks than I do. They are the ones who need to feel bad about what they are doing to their own bodies. Their bodies will go down the tubes on them just like Michael Jackson's face is now.

Answer 8

Never! Don't ever feel that way. Be secure in who you are and know that you are beautiful.

Don't forget, also, that they have make-up artists, air-brushing out of flaws, lighting, personal trainers, and cooks. It is unrealistic. Besides, eventually they will lead unhappy lives in the spotlight and with all the degredation that their money can buy. At least you can have a boyfriend in anonymity. You can shop without crowds of followers taking your picture.

Be who you are and revel in it.

Answer 9

not once I found out that pictures are touched up, airbrused, photo shopped, etc. AND they have makeup on that hides the bad things and highlights the good things. Be happy you are you. There is only one like you. Nobody else can be you. Besides, why would want to look/be like someone/everyone else? It's not what it's cracked up to be.

Answer 10

Please don't think this way, good looking men and women have their problem too. You may expect them to find partners easier but this usually not the case. It is good personality that attract and keep your lover forever because everybody will get old and ugly but not the personality. If your lover love you because of your personality and this likely to last very long, and usually this does not apply to those who love the other solely because of his/her good loooks. We men like to get married with not-too-pretty girls but those with good personality will the targets of many guys who want to look for a life partner. Believe me because I am a guy!

Answer 11

those pictures are touched up and air brushed to perfection. They are not real. You and me with all of our imperfections and flaws are what real life is made of.
If you feel like you would rather be dead that sounds pretty serious. You may want to talk to a professional