I'm in a relationship but cheated on my boyfriend almost two years ago. I recently told him because it was bothering me and I thought it might have been the best thing to do. My reason for cheating was because he wasn't paying attention to me like he did when we started dating and someone else filled that place. I was a virgin however when I cheated. I had sex once and felt very guilty about it. now my boyfriend doesn't know if he could trust me any more and is treating me differently. He cheated on me also but he told me just after he did and that's what made me feel guilty and told him what I did. I really love him and will do anything to win his trust again, Can you tell me what to do? PLEASE????????
2006-08-08 01:57:36 · 16 answers · asked by thicksauce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to to tell you dear that some broken relations are very hard to be fixed and in the case of cheating its even harder.the trust issue is very difficult to win back maybe u say am trying hard and am telling him i will do any thing to be as we used to be but you know what u r both doing you r trying to make a dead man be live again and u know its hard BUT as i understand you both cheated so i advice some time away from each other and rethinking of ur relation and it will be good to ask a specialist
With all my wishes
i hope u both can do it
♥
2006-08-08 02:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Clark794 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Trust is the thing that drives relationships. Once someone cheats, trust can never be fully gained back. sorry to say it but you two are not meant for each other, otherwise neither of you would have cheated, especially losing your virginity while cheating...thats just wrong
either way leave him and try to start fresh with someone else, and dont cheat
2006-08-08 02:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by sexydp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, most likely both of you will end up cheating again. The trust has been broken, and that is nearly impossible to repair.
To try to mend it, don't go out doing things with other guys without him, bars, etc.
Make him feel special.
Spend more time together.
2006-08-08 02:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since both of you cheated each other, I don't think there is any outcome in your relationship. Even though you may reconciled but the feeling will be totally different. I don't think you can do anything to salvage this relationship. So let it go and move on with your life
2006-08-08 02:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up and both of you are not right for each other. its best to leave each other because the trust between you is thrown out the window. I willbegin questioning and worrying everytime you guys are with the opposite sex or away for a period of time. This will lead to fights and such nonsense.Its best to end it now and move on. Trust me.
2006-08-08 02:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club, we are all searching for the golden globe in the sky. Some people reported spotting a touch of gold but it was soon covered by dark heavy clouds. Sorry, will have to go to SA for sun or America apparently some have died of heat over there. Thats bad.
2016-03-27 03:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't something that's going to go away overnight. You've broken EACH OTHERS trust and it will take time to gain that back. All you can do is take it day by day and work on rebuilding what you once had.
2006-08-08 02:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once trust is gone in a relationship it is basically over. Normally there is no way to get it back.. Sorry
2006-08-08 02:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If it's meant to be you'll brought back together. Otherwise, it won't work because you be trying to hard to make it work. You both need to grow up. You don't cheat on someone you love.
2006-08-08 02:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by bv715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and talk things out. Don't leave anything out. Speak from the heart. Remember what attracted you to one another. See the good in each other. Good luck.
2006-08-08 02:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋