well, i love my best friend but for 1 i think shes dodging me cause i told her i was bi. and at first she seemed fine about it. she i think has a bf & i totally respect that i just think she should know. How do i tell her?
2006-08-08 01:52:05 · 16 answers · asked by BOBO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't tell her. It makes your relationship very uncomfortable, and if she is strait, let her remain that way. It's just best you fall out of love with her.......
2006-08-08 01:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU lesbian?????ROCK ON! whell i saw a messege that you are 14??? is that true? IF SO GET HELP! if not: JUST TELL HER! "hello" - "hello" " i`ve got to ask you something" - "What?" - "we know each other since?? dunoo?? ex: 10year?? (tell for how moch you know her 1 year, 2 maybe 15???) - "yes" whell" -" What?" - "i love you, i`m a lesbian" - "ME TOO" - "let`s do it then! :)" ONLY IF SHE DOSEN`t have boyfriend! OKAY! If since you know her didn`t had boyfrined, or didn`t talked to one, she is probably a lesbian too. SO GO AHED, TELL HER WHAT YOU THINK! IF she isn`t lesbian, then go to a whore, or come to me i`m not gay: suck my dick ;) IF YOU NOT 14, IF YOU`re 18 or 20. OK. BUT You better respect her, not ruining a friendship, if she`s the best friend you ever had.
2006-08-08 02:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Boby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book called the Marketing of Evil you will learn there that you aren't Bi just being lied to by everyone. Read the book and pass on the info to everyone you can.
2006-08-08 02:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ruin your friendship with her, then go right ahead. She isn't Bi and you being Bi yourself should know that it isn't a decision you make, like what brand of cereal to buy.
I had a Bi girlfriend, I knew she was Bi when I met her and she knew that I was straight. I have a couple of friends who are lesbians as well. They know I am straight and we respect one another.
One day my Bi friend ruined our friendship by doing what your contemplating doing..... you are going to kill her respect.
Close girlfriends are like sisters..... you don't crack onto your sister.
2006-08-08 02:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isnt Bi and has no feelings for women herself then dont try and change that fact. Have respect for her decisions and find a girl for you. Maintian the bond you guys have no and dont risk destroying it.
2006-08-08 02:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't know. Not right now at least. That is putting her in a really tough spot , choosing between you and her boyfriend. Wait it out. If she gets rid of the boyfriend, then let her know. But whatever you do, don't drive a wedge between the two of them.
2006-08-08 01:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that your best friend isn't bi. Next time look out for signs if one is before you express yourself. You may frighten others away.
2006-08-08 03:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love her? Even for bi's, love might not be real at first site. See if you really like her first. If you do, i suggest writing an email/letter, she might be in shock at first.
2006-08-08 01:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by da dude person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's smokin' hot and you'd like to mow the lawn or take her for a dip in your hot tub.
get some motion lotion, and begin rubbing her feet and her legs and then work your way up up up.
seriously, invite her for a drink or to dinner and have a heart to heart. tell her you're emotionallly or physically attracted to her and that you can't live without her or whatever.
2006-08-08 01:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful not to lose your best friend. Friendship over relationship is a decision you will have to make.
2006-08-08 02:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋