attacked me, she cries when I try to leave her, and blames me for every problem she has, Im not the best boyfriend in the world but im nice enough to please most women (i think). What should I do?????
2006-08-08 01:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has complete control of you and knows it. She can mess with anyone she wants and blame you. WOW!!! Don't walk away; RUN!!!
2006-08-08 01:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my...
well of course she attacked you.
Does she have a point? Are you responsible for every problem she has?
People seldom cheat when they are being taken care of.
I suggest you DROP the HURT PUPPY routine... and do some serious damage control. Sit her down... and get to the real issues.. and DEAL WITH THEM... if it's not too late. If it is... don't make the same mistakes next time.
An affair is never just ONE PERSON. Not if the marriage was EVER real. Sorry... but do you want the TRUTH or do you want a "FEEL GOOD" answer.
2006-08-08 08:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i would suggest talking to her in a civilised manner and saying that when she calms down and can face up to her indescretions that you may be able to look past them. if you caught her she is busted i have no idea why she would lie about it. it makes no sense. but until she faces her cheating she has no right to be with you and you need to be able to tell her all of this and mean it. you may not be perfect honey but who the hell is? just make sure the path you take ends with what will make you the most happy cos it wont make a difference if you cant forgive her - in the end it will make things worse. good luck!
2006-08-08 08:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see a counselor...or leave her...which is what I would do. She doesn't seem willing to take responsibility for her own actions by blaming you...seems like bad news to me.
Her tantrums are just an effort to keep you there..she knows she messed up.
Find a girl who won't cheat...good luck
2006-08-08 08:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship has broken-down to the extent that you can no longer trust your partner/one-another then you need a clear break. Without trust you do not have a basis for long term commitment
2006-08-08 08:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you caught her how can she deny it? Is she your 'missus' or your girlfriend? Personally, if you caught her in the act...you should leave her, no doubt about that! Good luck
2006-08-08 08:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should she do should be your question from what you have written I can understand you know where you stand in the relationship so tell her to decide after giving her your thoughts about what you think of her and the relationship and be firm.
2006-08-08 08:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a crazy b itch, thats her problem. Your problem is that your asking this question. You should be out the door.
Dude, seriously, she sounds like she has tons of issues and alot of baggage.
2006-08-08 08:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now mine did it 3 times after 12 years you cant stop her and woman don't do things like that if you are male every thing is your fault
2006-08-08 08:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty presumptuous calling her your missus, but anyway she sounds like a nut case. dump her!!!
2006-08-08 08:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by geotom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋