i have a date next week with a girl i've liked for ages. the problem is, i think she's totally out my league. she's stunning and my mates would jump at the chance. don't want to come across as a pure tool.
2006-08-08 00:39:57 · 27 answers · asked by techno mentalist 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wouldn't be going on a date with you if she thought she was out of your league. Relax man!
2006-08-08 00:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God get yourself some confidence and before your date with this stunning girl who seems to be out of your league, your a lovely person too or you wouldn't have done the decent thing and asked this girl on a date, you would have expected it of her, so your mates would jump at the chance, good for them but its you who has caught her eye not them so forget about them OK, look she is a person just like you, stunning or otherwise do not put yourself down for others and how they look, if you feel she is out of your league your on a hiding to nothing and she might find it very offencive that you feel she isn't good enough for you after asking her out on a date, she is in the same league as you are, treat her with the respect and honesty you expect off her, hopefully everything will be perfect and very soon she will be right at the top of your league, good luck.
2006-08-08 00:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'RE the one with the date!!! Surely that tells you something?? I think you're just underestimating yourself! Obviously she likes you to say she agreed to the date so relax, be yourself, and dont be stressing about your mates!
If you worry too much you WILL come across as a tool and youwont get a second date - so relax and enjoy it!!
2006-08-08 01:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your natural but extra nice self. The mere fact that she agreed to go on a date with you means even she doesn't think you're out of her league and vice versa. Think of good topics for conversation so you don't get boring and start staring at her all night.Make it an interesting night enough so she can't resist another....and another and another.... Good luck!
2006-08-08 00:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, and flatter her and treat her like a lady...
if she is out of your league, why did she say yes??? has your mate asked her out???
you are more of a tool for over-analysing the situation... go with the flow and just don't mess up or try to be anything but yourself...
2006-08-08 00:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one thing i would say from experience is don't come on too strong. It's hard when ur dating someone u really like to try and not ask them on another day whilst ur still on the first one or say stuff that makes it sound like ur in love with her already. just take it steady, relax and have a good time
2006-08-08 00:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best just to accept that she fancies you. Don't try to understand why because everyone is entitled to their opinion. And women are more emotional than logical.
Anyway, maybe you are more attractive than you realise, very few people will tell you this without wanting something. Not because you haven't got the looks but because that's the way people are.
2006-08-08 01:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by xenobyte72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and take it easy and just be yourself.Gils dont just go on dates with anyone you know,we are such a picky bunch at times,enjoy it for what it is and the fact that shes going on the datw with you is a positive sign so have fun babes.
2006-08-08 00:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best think you can do is be yourself. If you try too hard to be what you are not, you will end up looking fake. She has agreed to go out with you, what more assurance that she is interested also do you need? Relax,
2006-08-08 00:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she has said she will go on a date with you, so she is not out of your league.
just be yourself, if it works out, great, if it doesn't - you have had a date with her!
All the best and have a good time!
2006-08-08 00:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by sarah_roo03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋