I'm getting married and I haven't told my parents yet. I'm scared that they will not like the idea of getting married at 19 yrs old. Should i tell them or not
2006-08-08 00:14:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
give up the idea of getting married...
IMMEDIATELY
2006-08-08 00:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you and your parent real close I know your 19 are you and only child if you were my child i would wont us to be close enough for you to be able you to come to me with anything do you love this guy do he want you to tell your family if he loves you he will go with you you parents might understand better the you think they love you don't be scared you are a grown woman now so do what you have to do let them no if they have a problem then you have to choose between them I'm going to pray for you so everything will go the way you want it
2006-08-08 07:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by gee-gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello?? You can't play with these stuff girl! Of course tell them...but are you sure you want to get married so young? You can always have a relationship with a man for some time and then take this serious desicion.
2006-08-08 07:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by asimenia_psycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have to tell them. Otherwise won't they be wondering who the guy is that keeps hanging around you???
If you've told anyone else, you should tell them immediately because it's inevitable that they will find out that you've been hiding it and that will make it even worse.
If you think you're old enough to get married then you should be old enough to discuss it with your parents.
2006-08-08 08:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them
I was 19 when i married and weighted til after to tell my parents my mom cried for 30 minutes and my dad he isn't a very emotional person but i could tell it hurt more that i married with out them being there than that i married.... they liked him.
2006-08-08 07:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes tell them! My brother didnt tell my mother (he was 19) and he's still feeling the wrath (10 years later). Tell them. It may be a little scary for them loosing their little girl/boy (sorry didnt see your name) but they may be happy to get you out of the nest. They may already have a clue if you been hangin around w/the same person for a while. Personally I think you should wait. Get your education and make something of yourself that way you have more to offer for your woman/man.
2006-08-08 07:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell them, it would be completely immature to get married without your parents knowing! just think about it before you do it .. Good Luck with everything in your life =o)
2006-08-08 07:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by ugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell them, anyways if you dont stay with your parents and is doing kinda good without thier help then it is your choice if you get married. But if you and your mate his not been together long dont do it trust me. But yea I you should tell them, dont hide it.
2006-08-08 07:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them after you get married then they won't have any oppositions, but then again it is your wedding day you do want your parents blessing because if you don't you won't forvige yourself. So don't say you haven't got any options because I've just given you 2
2006-08-08 07:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't tell my parents till after wards. they weren't cross but more hurt, cause it's a special day for them as well. they can't change your mind cause you are old enough to make your own decisions. Just tell them, it's the best thing to do.
2006-08-08 07:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by fugazichick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not talk to your parents maybe you should think if you are mature enough to get married.
2006-08-08 07:19:56 · answer #11 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋