2006-08-07 22:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by snowfoxx71 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is love?? If love is not being able to live without someone not being able to get them out of ur head, loving thier faults and wanting to care for them and be with them for the rest of your life then yes I believe it is possible at anytime. If true love is this big fantasy that everyone seems to be hung up on that ur eyes will meet accross a room and without even speaking u know u will be together forever then no u've probably had to much vino and need to sober up. I cared very deeply for my guy when I first met him and my love for him has grown stronger and stronger each day. Within a week he asked me to move in with him and I did we've been together 3 years now have a child together and are due to get married next summer. Things can happen quickly but I believe when it happened to me I took a risk I dont believe I was in love with him the very first second, but after talking to him for what seemed like a lifetime, cared enough to take the risk and find out. If u think the other person is worth the risk then grab it with both hands...you may be one of the lucky ones and find your true love, if it goes wrong put it down to experience and move on. x
2006-08-08 00:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by nuttybird 1 · 30⤊ 7⤋
No. That's falling in love with a person's looks. You barely even met the guy and don't know anything about 'im. It's only possible to fall in love after you get to know the person better. There really is no such thing as love at first sight. Believe me. It's like Ne-Yo said, "You shouldn't date a person because they're cute. One day the cuteness is gonna fade." True true. Everybody's looks will change. You could date an ugly person and after you marry he's hott. Or you could date a cute person and when you're adults he's ugly. I'm not saying ugly people will look good and good looking people will look ugly. There is a chance that will happen but the cuteness will fade. Don't forget that quote. It'll come in handy. Did for me.
PS. Sometimes you think this person is hot. After you get to know them better it turns out they're a jerk or selfish and not a good person to hang with.
2006-08-07 22:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Hadassa Marciano1994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible but i think what you suggest is unlikely.
I think it's more likely to be romantic infatuation or simple attraction. You need to know somebody very well for real love to develop and for it to last in the real sense- which takes time.
Love should not make you forgetful, unable to eat or to concentrate on what you are doing. . Neither should it cause you to make irrational choices. Love should make you do everything better and enhance you personally rather than detract from it.
Hope that helps
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2006-08-07 22:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's possible but most of the times u won't be able to tell each other there and there maybe after a few days.
2006-08-07 22:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by chicho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Almost always it's a "smitten physical attraction" What most people search and yearn for is "true love" and that comes with time and learning all about someone.
2006-08-07 23:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible, however u run the risk of then finding out they are a homicidal nutter who has a thing for easily influenced little girls. but by then its love and your stuck with them. what do you do then?
2006-08-08 01:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by simonmcrae2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can fall in lust alright but love is deeper than one meeting.....a little longer perhaps a few dates yea but not on the first one.....not for me
2006-08-07 22:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,absolutely...I fell in love the first time i met my last boyfriend,it was like i was coming home,or that i knew him before,but i believe in love at first sight.
2006-08-07 22:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i truly believe in love at first site
2006-08-07 23:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by tezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did and we are together a year now and still like the first day we met :)
2006-08-07 22:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by laura m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you may think u really like them but u may be in love with them when y'all start to get to know each other better
2006-08-07 22:42:56 · answer #11 · answered by $$$$ I NO U NV ME $$$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋