Me and my husband have been having sex for 6 months but we were very regular for the past one month and we used to have it everyday and sometimes more than that too. Now my husband says that my vagina is not too tight and my bust is not at all firm. Is it normal? Is there anything that i can do about it? I am four months pregnant, I also have a palpable stomach and i don't have a very firm body.
2006-08-07 22:22:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I am 5'4" in ht. and of 60 kgs wt.
2006-08-07 22:23:23 · update #1
so here is a simple and working homely idea
use ice before sex rub the ice o n your vergin that will make your vergin tight and very hard and your husband must like this
2006-08-07 22:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think with your bust it is that you are pregnant and they are starting to become tender and they swell with breast milk. When you are pregnant you really should wait to have anymore sex until after you have had the child(just my opinion). The loss of elasticity to your vagina is also due to your pregnancy because all of your skin does that because your skin stretches when you are pregnant. You may get stretch marks so i suggest getting lotion that has Vitamin E, Collagen and Elastin in it (Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula, at drugstores and Wal-mart). The sagging of your skin can also be from aging. Your skin will not stay firm and shiny forever. Make sure you apply lotion to your skin after taking a shower or sweating or swimming, etc. Just make sure to keep your skin hydrated. GOOD LUCK WITH THE BABY!
2006-08-08 05:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat122188 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, i think you just answered your own questions. If you do it more than 1 a day, and he expects you to be tight, then he's kinda adding to his own delima. Vagina muscles are like all others: then tend to wear down after being used alot, so tell him to back off or close your legs and do it on your sides more. The reason you might ne "loose" in some places in the changes your body goes thrigh when pregnant, so don't worry about it. If he doesn't notice this, then he's prety blind.
2006-08-08 05:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your husband insane?lets see how tight your vagina is after 9 months of no sex and then at least 3 month after the birth of no sex...what an insensitive bastard.....i tell you what thou PC exercises,where you clench the muscles in your vagina are good to help exercise that region,so is stopping your pee half way through,all these things help but if you are really concerned ask your doctor and when he tells you that nothing is wrong bake a chocolate cake with chocolate laxative grated through...not tight enough,Christ you haven't even given birth yet..i cant imagine what he will say to you when you have had his child.....this guy needs to wake up to himself,you got your self a wanker there honey and you really do have to re-educated him.....asap
2006-08-08 05:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ........yes there is something you could do for me in fact give youre husband a right good hard SLAP !!!!!!how dare he say thing lik this to you ,you are carrying his baby and he should be delighted at that fact for starters you are going to go through many changes and this idiot is starting this crap youre body is fine and is looking after a another little human being that will come into this world with a lovely mum to look after it ....mind you the father will i suppose do a ok job when he stops acting like a right plank of wood !!!!!! good luck and take care xx
2006-08-08 05:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're body is going to change...you have a baby growing inside of you! There is something called "Chinese Shrink Cream" and you can buy it in sex stores or online...it's used to tighten the muscles for sex.
Oh, and double duty...this cream works GREAT on those fine lines & wrinkles on the face!
2006-08-08 08:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can exercise your inside mussels, just feel the same mussels that you use to hold in your pee..there are 6 differant ones and you need to feel each of them..and squeeze them tightly for about 5 seconds then release...do each mussel that way, it will take a few weeks of work, but it will be worth it, otherwise sounds like your husband is going to find it someplace else, also while you are getting back in shape su ck more often... you can also exercise while having sex...and he will be able to help you find each differant mussel....and it will make him enjoy it more at the same time...
2006-08-08 05:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him maybe he needs glasses and his male hood is shrinking.
You can get stuff to help tighten you up and eating correct and exercise will firm up other parts.
You husband is a idiot for saying crap like that.
2006-08-08 05:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there sunshine ur husband is a jerk for sayign those things to u u are carring his child and he is supposed to be kind, gentel good humouros adn to make u happy not sad with his hurtful remarks pls take heart and look up possible help from the internet and from your doctor good luck
2006-08-08 11:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by glorianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your vagina is ok but your husband penny has become thin so ask him to do massage to his penny to make it health there are many site or doctor for that and as you are pregant so your bust is not firm
2006-08-08 05:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by author g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋