I got really interested in this gal the 1st time I met her & was checking her out during classes. She noticed it the 1st time and keep looking back. (which always end with her turning back in shyness when i look back) and didn't move away when I went over to sit beside her.
Unfortunately, I made the mistake of being CHICKEN and didn't chat her up until many weeks later (with the help of my friend). She appears to be okay with chatting with me (she seems to be a bit nervous though, probably due to the eye games we play) and gave us her number when my friend asked for it.
Couple of days later i sent her phone messages abt random stuff as an excuse to find out if shes ok with me nicking her number off my friend even though i didn't explicitly ask for it. The replies i got were very short but nothing bad.
It has been 7 days since we first chatted in person for the first time: I know she got a class coming up later this week. Is it alright if I ask her out for food before her class?
2006-08-07 22:20:17 · 4 answers · asked by Kurtosis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw, not really going to ask her out on a "date" and get her to be "my girl" or something crazy like that.
Just want to chat with her a bit and get to know her somemore. (and see if there is any chance for a real date!)
Question: To a girl, if some guy ask her out alone it means he is making a move on her? Its not something normal like guy asking guy out for lunch or something.
Question 2: inviting her out through phone messages is a big no-no right?
2006-08-07 22:54:12 · update #1
I think I speak for everybody when I say that you should ask her out. What's the worse thing she could say? no? At least she knows that you have guts. If you keep beating around the bush and get to know her through your friend then she'll start liking your friend. Ask her out... if she likes you then she'll say yes.
2006-08-07 22:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Batman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are either a shy person or you really like this girl or botth. In either case I think that you should talk to her a little more before asking her out. She might get a little freaked out if she thinks that you guys just met and you already want to do something. But if you don't really care if she likes you or not and want to do it for the hell of it then i say go for it. But remember! girls like confident guys. Think confident and you'll be confident.....aslo act confident and you'll think confident
2006-08-07 22:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by abjr_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no be friends first, make her like u , not the looks but ur nature, just be urself.
2006-08-07 22:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes good idea,
2006-08-07 22:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋