I mean girls you know how it is you seem like your the only one that finds all the a$$holes and i am exactly like you. Should i change myself just so someone likes me or what do i do.
2006-08-07 21:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to know how to pick the good guys from the bad ones, try being more observant of them. How do they treat you and other women? How well do they dress themselves? How much do they drink? Do they practice good manners? How do they treat their mothers? Can they hold down a steady job?
You don't need to change anything other than learning how to spot the bad ones. You also might want to consider where you meet men. If you are cruising the bars and other drinking establishments, chances are you are going to meet nothing but the a$$holes you seem to attract.
2006-08-07 21:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of what it's like to have this be you.
I've always been the one guy every girl feels she can talk to because I don't think there's any point in hurting them. Yeah, guys like that exist!
I can tell you exactly what goes on for most people. If you're one of the really pretty/sexy/etc. ones, consider yourself lucky. You can get any guy you'd like, just ask yourself this: "am I a sweet and smart girl?"
Gorgeous, hot, etc. girls with great personalities are the ones who can get the good guys and keep them, BUT draw the bad boys because they love to see girls under their power. The sweeter, the stronger the reaction. *PuKe*
Idiots.
If you're a little less attractive, don't worry. It's about looking in the right places.
Don't look for your usual type of guy. Good guys tend to be most common among the quiet and shy ones who tend to geek out over computer games. The really sweet ones who still cry a little.
Don't worry, they're not wimps, just a little sensitive and inexperienced.
Check out guys who do their own groceries. If they're cute, clean, and have a cart full of gourmet ingredients like exotic fruits, steaks, spices (big one), etc. ask them if they like to cook.
Creative guys in particular with genuine hearts and passion are always a good bet.
Lastly, consider how much you respect yourself. You should NEVER have to change yourself to fit another person's desires. ALWAYS grow into a better person, but one that stays true to who you are.
Besides, its those kinds of people that great guys fall for. They love to love what they respect and admire.
2006-08-08 09:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by savage_insight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give me a chance than u can find u are lucky or not.
2006-08-08 04:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r same as me. it's a luck. if u r leave respectfull with other then
u never find a badguys.
2006-08-08 04:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change yourself for them, change yourself for you. and dont worry you'll find mr. right. hopefully sooner rather than later.
2006-08-08 04:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by wrestling diva!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋