For some reason I have never had a relationship before I have always had situations... we're I end up being friends with benefits to a paticular person for a really long time or we do boyfriend and girlfriend things and never end up boyfriend and girlfriend...what am I doing wrong, what do guys look for in a woman in order to respect her and how do I finally find commitment/relationship... I'm 20...
2006-08-07 21:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by Gface15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're only twenty so you were likely experimenting, when you decide that you want to be in a committed relationship then find the best educated, working man who wants the same thing you do.
If you find out during the dating process that he's not a keeper, let him go fast, so you can get back out there to search again. Upgrade where you look for acceptable men. Stop the friends with benefits stuff.
2006-08-07 21:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds exactly like what has happened to me until now. It's all about the choices that you make and the people that you meet. Some persons are just not meant to be for you, they are just preparing you, let's say, for a real relationship. It not the subject of whether men respect you or not in order to commit, it's about what they want in a woman, the type they like, if you are suited for each other. I have remained friends with all my exs (if I can call them so) because we have understood that we had something at one point, but it just didn't work out. Many just want to have an affair with you, but not because they like having sex on a regular basis, but because they are naturally attracted to young beautiful, smart women. If you really want an answer to this question, ask them directly, I did so and it helped me.
2006-08-08 04:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Yoshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go about finding a man. Mr. Perfect should find you. And while you're waiting for Mr. Perfect, be sure not to give-in easily on a man. Demand for respect. Try to know a man very well before going into a relationship.
2006-08-08 04:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Renzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, ur 20. the world is not over yet. maybe you should stop looking and focus on other things. When the time comes, opportunity will be knocking at your door. It's not the end of the world. You can look me up if you want, am single too.
2006-08-08 04:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Max 77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many guys i know end up with the same problem lolz...1st u must ask urself what did u do rather than what did u do wrong cos we have no idea what u did to begin helping you.
if u want to gain a good man's respect, u gotta be confident of urself, be a little hard-to-get(but not too much or u'll end up being seen as playing games with him), dun dress up too much like a sl*t. then guys will line up for u
2006-08-08 04:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find a man you could turn him on and provoke him sexually(without having sex with him).if you are not sexually attractive to a man at all,you would not be able to attract him even if you act well.don't exagerate your apearance for example by wearing pink clothes if it does't suit you.never be spoiled.be elegant.but you should know that after having sextual relationship,if the male liked it he would stay with you otherwise he would leave you.if you are not an attractive and fit and beautiful girl it makes things difficult.so find a male capable of being sexually attracted by you and let him tell you "i love you" without being worried about being rejected by you.some boys don't like to be rejected by females.
2006-08-08 04:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by unicorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. For some reason when you are looking for something you are less likely to find it. Instead focus on yourself. Put your energy into schooling, self improvement, and your career. If you find your path you will surely find someone to share it with you.
Good Luck
2006-08-08 04:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my first advice get to know where is line between a respectable friend and friend with benefits.2nd dont have sex with the guy u want to be with,for atleast two months. and learn to say no. be nice but dont let him treat u like gf if u are not his gf.first be friends then let him ask u out.TAKE IT STEP BY STEP.and sweety incase u dont know guys like girls who are challenge to them.so consider urself as trophy and guys have to win you.DONT BE EASY.
2006-08-08 04:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-08 04:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋