what would u do.....?

Question

what would u do if u found out that your boyfriend when to your bestfriend house but they say they just whent over there because they where friend which they sound kinda fishey i think he is cheating on me what sould i do

Answer 1

seems to me, that trust has been an issue even before the best friend incident. trust is going to remain an issue, i promise. it's clear you don't believe him. your relationship is headed downhill, and has been that way for sometime now. can you forgive and make yourself never bring it up again? no? move on. the best way to get his attention focused back on you is to not to be so readily available for him. let him feel your absence then his eyes will open to what he is missing. most people don't know what theyve got until its gone. give this a try. all the love you feel for him aside from the anger and betrayal, is sincere , right? and don't you wish the best of anything for him? why don't you deserve those things too? if he can't return to you the same amount of effort you put forth, then hes basically saying your not worthy of his love.

Answer 2

Here's the deal from my perspective. I had been w/this guy for MONTHS..and we hadn't done anything...and the one time we got soooooo close he was like "no stop baby, i don't want to do this yet. its not time"...Okay fine, I can respect that. I go over to his house one day to surprise him and find him in his bed getting it on with my best friend!!!! I was horrified. I felt soooo stupid. Anyways. If you have any other reason to believe that he is cheating on you, then watch your back. You dont want to get burned like I did because it SUCKS. But if he's always been faithful before, trust him and just tell him that you dont' like him hanging out at your best friends place alone. If he doesnt' understand, then he doesnt' deserve you and if he gets mad and calls you "controlling" then he probably is cheating. Good luck!!!!

Answer 3

i have been there i no what you are sayin and for me they were doing thing behide my back so tell you one thing that you can do the next time that you are with him take him to your friends house everyone sit and talk but you watch how they will do around else other and they looks that they will ever else other then get up and walk out of the room but do it to where u can still see them say that u r going out side for a min... to get some air open the door and act like u walked out and then see what goes on or what all you can hear i hope this helps you out

Answer 4

if she is your real friend, and your boyfriend is true-then there is nothing wrong with them hanging around--
do you trust your friend ?
do you trust your boyfriend?
if you answered no to the questions-then you should not be communicating with either of them, why have a relationship with any body-if you do not trust them,it will only drive you crazy thinking about situations that could of happened.-if you feel he is cheating on you-then you should let him go-

Answer 5

I would approach both of them and ask what is going on.

The best way , is to talk first to him, and then her.

If there stories don't match up and they both get defensive from the question. Then something is going on.

Answer 6

if you don't trust him, then leave him, simple as that, sometimes the ones we call best friends are the ones that pull their own knives out of our backs....keep that in mind

Answer 7

um talk to him. and talk to her. maybe get your friend a boyfriend so she wouldnt be around your boyfriend that much even if they were just friends. lol

Answer 8

why dont you gals every trust your guyz??? thats where everything in a relationship goes wrong.. dont jump to conclusions and keep your cool..

Answer 9

well they're obviously not gonna tell you that they did something, but I would definitely feel suspicious...if you truely feel in your heart that something more went down...leave him, and stop talking to her....but the whole "what if" thing would kill me!!

Answer 10

Ask your bestfriend if she's ur true friend.......she wont lie to u!