why do people think that asains are sluts?

Question

im asain, and it seems to me that guys that meet me just dont want to get to know me, instead they just want to hook up with me and move on.
i also have some other asain friends and they also tell me that guys think the same way of them also. we all dont dress sluty or anything, and we dont understand why guys think we are one night stands. this makes me feel really ashamed of who i am.

Answer 1

say it with me sweetie STEREOTYPICAL! because guys dont pay attention to just normal sweet asian girls. they are interested when sex gets involved. plus asia is on the other side of the world, guys dont know how normal asian chicks are. and the porn sites dont help either

Answer 2

I think you just answered your own question. Two asians who put out all the time are sluts, race has little to do with it. Word gets around fast in a small town and the guys know exactly what girls to go to for action. I have several asain friends who've never had this problem. If your ashamed, stop the disgusting behavior.

Answer 3

Hum ..well I really think that the asian culture prety much dominates porn and are veiwed as an exotic comodity in the usa and in asia I know blonds and red heads are the exotic comodity. It all depends on where you are. I see latin and russian women are the ones most targeted for mariage to keep their clothes and house clean and cook. Asian women are pushed to persue edjucation so I think some men might be intimidated. I am of latin, Italian decent and I always here men say to each other when they are complaining of women you should marry a mexican girl or you should date a mexican girl.
I prefer older men in there 30s and 40s to guys my age in their 20 because they have been ther done that and looking for somthing different most are done parting and have learned how not to treat a woman. I am hapily married now and have a little boy. I am 27 my hubby 44 and we appreciate one anothers strengths and diferences. They are also not afraid of commitment as much as guys our age girl...I know what yo u mean though and so dose every other girl reading this about one night stands we've all been there done that and gone through that. Sad huh..

Answer 4

maybe these most of the asians these men met were sluts.there are as many or more asian sluts as ther are european or american sluts.but why be ashamed as long as u r not one of thm.such men dont deserve a good asian girl.u should be proud of who u are.asians are the most beautiful women in the world.and most loving and caring too.ur Mr right will soon find u and respect u for who u are. all the best.

Answer 5

Yeah a number of the crews do remind of persons from final season yet i do like the coach i think of lil mama has no place on the coach, what can she decide she has no sucess herself all because of the fact she did some dancing in her video do no longer mena she's good, shane is a choreographer so I have not got any concern with that and JC surely is sweet at judging his comments are good

Answer 6

Hey there, Asain are one of the most beautiful gals in the world actually in the western world guys are mad about brown skin gals , I am a asian & I like all my friends to be asian join me as my friend if u wish, its nothin to be depressed of you'll surely find somebody wonderful in ur life soon.

Answer 7

The only people who think that Asian women are sluts are the racist bigot types who have the sterotypes in their mind that all Asian women are submissive and are only there to please a man. Women of all races have a problem with men in general who just want them for their bodies. That is why when you deal with every man you talk to, you keep them in arms length until they prove to you that they are worthy of your time.

I can only speak for myself that most Asian women I have ever dealt with were awesome in every way possible. Not only are they lovely, but also kind, virtuous, sweet, and morally sound. Some of the best girlfriends I ever had were women Asian decent. No it wasn't because of anything she did in the bedroom, but they were very calming to be around. At least when I did something they didn't approve of, they didn't immediately bust my chops yelling at me. LOL

Answer 8

You shouldn't be ashamed of who you are. Those same guys most likely treat other women the same way. Unfortunately many guys think with the wrong head. Obviously they are some pretty narrow minded guys.

Answer 9

Don't EVER let guys being DUMBASSES make you ashamed of who you are. The reason they think that is because the asian porn stars are super slutty in the videos(SO I'VE HEARD)...don't let them think that about you. Make sure they KNOW you aren't just gonna SLEEP WITH THEM ON A ONE NIGHTER. It pisses me off that someone can get you down like that...but it's life ya know? I love Asians, most of them are good people...well most the ones I know are.

Answer 10

My friends says its because a lot of "sites" on the internet advertise asian sluts. Its just another stereotype like asians being smart or people wearing glasses are nerds.

Answer 11

get used to being a woman
it's mostly because you're a woman, not because you're asian

I think to a small degree, some white (but not really black or asian) guys may see asian girls as someone to date (or fvck) casually but not to get serious with, just because they want to end up with someone more similar in appearance. Some white guys see black girls, or any non-white girls in the same way.

Like maybe 10% of white guys see non-white (oriental, black, pakistani, indian, latina, etc) girls as someone they can potentially marry, then 30% of white guys see non-white girls as someone they can have a fling with but can't marry, and then about 60% of white guys see non-white girls as someone they won't ever have anything to do with. Talking about white guys in the USA.

So maybe you are right. I think most white guys simply wouldn't date you, but most of those who would date you probably wouldn't be in it for a serious relationship (they're just looking for a good time). But then again, that percentage is probably not very different from the percentage of men who are just looking for a good time with any woman versus the men who are looking for something serious.