I have a g/f and i don't know if she actually climaxes or if she is close to an orgasm but doesn't. I ask this because sometimes we are just dry humping and it seems like she gets off. Other times i just finger her for like 5 minutes and it seems like she gets off. I don't get it. I thought that girls go for a long time before they reach their climax. Any suggestions please help me out!
2006-08-07 20:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by abjr_86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be afraid to talk to her about it. Also, let her know that she's not under any pressure to perform for you. Often girls feel that they're expected to orgasm to make their boyfriends feel successful as lovers, which can end up reinforcing bad behaviour. It's much better for her to be open and honest about what she enjoys and what just doesn't work for her, so that you don't keep trying things that just don't get her motor running. Yes, at first it can be a bit deflating to have a girl admit she's faked one or two of the orgasms; but if she realizes that it's not helping matters, she'll stop worrying about trying to fake them to make you feel better, and instead focus on making sure you know what to do that really works, so you'll know any orgasms that show up are the real thing.
Besides--talking about sex is often a really good way to spice things up, and you may find that even just discussing the matter is enough to get you both a bit breathless. ^_^
2006-08-07 21:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by mpetach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
merely tell him that you get exhilaration from having sex with him yet you do not have orgasms that really, and in case you do not have one, tel him now to not take it own because that's continuously been confusing. you should get to understand your body to understand what you go with throughout sex. Masturbate till you've an orgasm. this can help you to perceive what you get exhilaration from. quickly, sluggish, confusing, smooth, even with is your exhilaration, word it. to respond to your question, I actually have an orgasm anytime, from time to time more effective than one. It receives more effective well-known the more effective you realize your body. reliable success :~)
2016-11-23 15:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's different of ridfferent people, but one good way to tell, her breathing, if she's having any muscle spasms, you can feel it.... and the best way to give a girl the big o is o ral sex!
2006-08-07 21:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try ur tounge...it helps...atleast with my gf....her moaning would say it all.....communicate...the best tool of alll.......ask her what she enjoys the most and that would do the job.....
2006-08-07 21:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first thing that you should do is mk hr tok.she's d only prsn who knws wts going on dwn there.ask hr.tl hr dt if she is'nt there yet u r ready 2 work mr on hr. try playin vd ur tng mr ofn
2006-08-07 21:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by manu 1 · 0⤊ 7⤋
find new gf
2006-08-07 22:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by gal 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go for a sexy & new galllllllll
2006-08-07 20:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by sanju b 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋