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Im depressed beyon belief, my parents abuse me. i was just beaten an i want this pain to stop, i cant take it anymore, i am seriously thinking abotu suicide. I dont want to kill myself but i just want the pain to end, please help me

2006-08-07 20:41:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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where r u residing now ? u should be calling some depression help line in your country for someone to talk with.. just know it is not the end of the world and good that u speak out here.. take care

2006-08-07 20:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, nothing is worth taking your life over. I understand wanting the pain to stop. Only you can reach out to someone, depending on your age, if you are under age contact the department of children's services..tell a teacher, a friends parents..a policemen...but don't ever think you have done anything to deserve this. No person ever has the right to hit another. If you are old enough, over 18, then you can file a police report for domestic violence..never keep this kind of thing quiet...it isn't you..it is them. You need to get yourself out of this environment as quickly as possible. There are hot lines you can call and speak to someone...but first get out...talk to someone...and do not end your life...over a situation that can be corrected...you just need to speak out. It never seems possible when you are in a situation..but you can always better your situation..no matter what it may be. Just hang in there..and pick up the phone and call someone..or go to a friends house and have their parents call...don;t wait any longer.

2006-08-07 23:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by RITA G 3 · 0 0

Go to the emergency room at the hospital. They should have a critical care crisis division for mental health. By law, they have to see you and file a report with the local agencies like the police and social services.

Also, look in the yellow pages for " Suicide Hot lines". The staff can speak with on the phone and get you help. Women's shelters give help and shelter to women and children who are victims of abuse.

You can report the abuse to the police and social services yourself. Do you have a relative or close friend who can go with you for moral support? Do you have somewhere else you can stay where you will be safe?

Be well and good luck.

2006-08-07 20:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by ne11 5 · 0 0

Man, suicide is a personal choice. If you feel you're going through too much **** and just won't be able to keep up with life, don't see a way out, and actually think things are never ever goinr to chance, then do it. But escaping from things is not the way to solve them. All I tell you is be strong and have hope. Hope is the last thing that vanishes... if life turns its back on you, grab it by the ***. Suicide?: your choice. My advice: F**K everything, F**K your parents, get outta there and make you own life, the worst thing that could happen is already happening anyway, isn't it?

2006-08-07 21:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0 0

Know that your current situation is just your CURRENT situation. It will not always be this way, things WILL get get better, and change does happen. First off, you need to find a way to get out of your house if you parents are abusing you, it's not ok, and you shouldn't have to endure that pain. And I'm no counselor/therapist/whatever person, but you should find someone you can talk to. What about your grandparents?? Aunts/uncles? You shouldn't have to be alone in this, there's gotta be someone you can turn to! Just don't give up, Your life is worth something, You are worth more than this, even though your situation sucks right now! Take this one to God, He will take care of you! It doesn't hurt to pray ^.~

2006-08-07 20:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by jaded_reverie04 2 · 0 0

Hey 'blah',
No one deserves to be abused, if youre feeling this way I think you should get out of the way you're living right now, but suicide is definetly NOT the answer, get in touch with anyone that can help you, the pain can only end if you get yourself some help, whoever you might choose to talk to can help you get in touch with a social worker and it'll all get better from there, but remember its only you that can get the ball rolling, nobody can help you if they dont know whats going on. it might be a really big step, but it WILL be worth it I can guarantee you, a new lease of life, you'll get all the help you need from a social worker and if you want to improve life at home or just get out of your home they can help. please dont resort to suicide its just not the answer. you'r parents dont deserve you, and you deserve more than the life your living at the moment.

remember: its you that has to get the ball rolling and it'll all get better when you share you'r problems with someone.

good luck hope it all works out.

2006-08-07 20:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 2 · 0 0

please call the crisis line in your area they will direct you to the approaite agency life can be very frustrating if it helps you any i came from a home where my mom worked all the time so did my dad but he was an alcholic and beat my mom on a reg basis and verbally and mentally abused me and my sisters it was very frustrating living in that house i didint know which way to turn i couldnt wait till i turned 18 so i could get the heck out then i was ok. i felt like you thinking suicide was the answer but you know what its not. talk to someone in the crisis line maybe they can place you to live somewhere else give you advice on how to cope and get you emergency counceling and hjousing in the mean time good luck to you

2006-08-07 21:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0 0

Call Department of Family and Children Services, Talk to school counselor, another family member, BUT talk to someone. You don't have to take it. Call the Police. Look in the phone book under suicide prevention and they will find help for you.

2006-08-07 20:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by jenajet77 2 · 0 0

My dear brother/sister, recently i lost one of my cousin who committed suicide. I swear u, till date i have a deep feeling that he should have spoken to any one of our cousins regarding his problems. There is a solution for each and every problem. As other friends have said here, don't think that life will be like this forever. Everyday the life changes. U may feel that u r not useful for ur family, but u may not ur own strengths dear.Expose urself to the world and see others' sufferings and try to reduce ur pains. Now my uncle is mourning for my cousin's death, and he feels that his son should have had an open discussion with him earlier. We r all there with u, don't feel alone. I pray god for ur life.

2006-08-07 21:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by Guddy 2 · 0 0

If they are abusing you as in really beating you call the police!! Call another family member, do something. Suicide is so final, you don't want to do that! What if it got botched up and "they" had to take care of you? It's not that bad...God is with you, Pray, he'll help!!

2006-08-07 20:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0 0

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