How hurt would you be to find out that your boyfriend lied about his living arrangement for a year? His excuse (white lie) is that his roommate does not allow guests, but the truth is that the roommate does... that is when he was still living where he said he lives. But the real reason behind the excuse is that he'd actually given up his place, and lives with his sister. And while he no longer has his own place, he's almost always at his girlfriend's place... and he gives her the same excuse (above) everytime she brings up wanting to see where he lives. Well, He continued saying the "white lie", or excuse, for a year, because he didn't want his girlfriend to think differently about him. Another reason is he gave her the "white lie" 'bcoz he knows his girlfriend secretly emails/talks with her ex, or exes. I know though... my friend had been good to his girlfriend by not cheating on her at all and he helped her with her laundry and household chores. If you're the gf, can u 4give
2006-08-07 20:29:34 · 16 answers · asked by goodude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is just too convolutated for me to follow.
2006-08-07 20:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of drama going on here. Sounds as if your friend is a little on the immature side. He also has some reality issues. When two people really care for each other, they hide nothing. Tell him to come clean with the girlfriend, and explain why he lied. If she really cares for him, where he lives is not going to matter.
2006-08-08 03:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd be hurt. I'd wonder why he didn't trust me enough to tell me where he was living. Maybe having to live with his sister is something he feels he should feel ashamed about, but hey.. it is what it is. It takes a while for people to earn enough to make it on their own. Nothing to be ashamed about it. Keeping things from loved ones -- that doesn't lay the foundation for a healthy, honest relationship. And it's only going to cause your friend to constantly mistrust him once she finds out that he's been lying to her for so long.
2006-08-08 03:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by inoym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a years time, we all have time to come clean about a host of subjects. Face it your guy is a lier and he shall never change, and as for the cheating thing, it is just a matter of time, before you find out. you can choose to be a door mat or you can choose to be your own woman. The choice is yours.
2006-08-08 03:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by TWINKLES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, what does this"friend"feel so guilty about, obviously the girl friend has the problems, so what if they lived with the sister, **** happens, be honest, and that goes for the girlfriend to,right....
2006-08-08 03:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by dragonfly2892 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that will pop in her head is he is cheating even if it's not true. He should just tell her cause she has to be suspicious.
2006-08-08 03:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by jenajet77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too mach but what to do?
listen it from me: don't make your relationship to any one as you say your all secrets to him/her. Also don't enemy any one as you say him/her every worst word because the life is rolling up. it may you again get closest love with who you said him/her worst or be enemy with who know your secrets
2006-08-08 03:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by saxon_mixer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like white lies, it will take long to 4give him, but we cant see each other n we can ONLY say hi to each otha tht all
2006-08-08 04:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a little confused here, but here goes. depending on the true nature of the g/f feelings I guess, if she is in love then she would forgive..... if not in love, she needs to move on........ that simple...... God bless
2006-08-08 03:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously doesnt care enough to tell the truth. dont waste anymore time on him. hes a loser.
2006-08-08 03:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by igotbuuurnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋