i like this girl, but i know there's no point in asking her out because shes intrested in someone else, but i see her almost ever where but i still seem to like her is there any way to get over her
2006-08-07 20:16:14 · 14 answers · asked by steven v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
two ways:
1) finality - just expressing your feelings to her. if she's not interested as you say, then the rejection, though hurtful in a way, can help you mentally remove the possibility from your mind. on the other hand, if she's interested... :)
2) gradual tactical response - pursue her as a friend - just hang out and talk with her. compliment her, flirt subtly with her. girls like attention. this can be a leadup to #1 if you wish.
so basically i'm telling you to get over her by expressing your feelings, not denying them. you can't choose who your heart wants. it chooses for you. the more you want to hide from that, the more you'll want it.
maybe it won't work out. but does it matter? we are humans. we feel. no need to go crazy and bottle it up. as long as there's a chance, you'll wonder. and there's always a chance. live with no regrets. :)
2006-08-07 20:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Triad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time but never count out ur chances man. that guy might hurt her and u can swoop in to save her.u just never know what will happen in life.still if u want to get over her u need to go out have fun and meet a girl that is kool and fun and will help u get her out of ur mind.belive me when u find her that girl u thought about be distant memory.so it takes time and u going out and having fun.good luck
2006-08-07 23:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just be her friend. Then you don't have to get over her. You can't have everything (or everyone) you want in life so that's where you compromise. Most girls love guys who aren't always "after" them and so you might end up finding yourself being more "in demand" than you would think by just being yourself and being a friend.
2006-08-07 20:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over someone is to get on top of somebody else.
2006-08-07 20:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl. Play the field. Flirt with as many chicks as you can find. Before you know it, you will be over her. In fact, you will be wondering to yourself, "What the heck did I ever see in that girl?".
2006-08-07 20:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her the feelings u have for her..."words left unspoken may leave hearts broken"so y not u give a try...love always wins at the end
2006-08-07 20:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do yu know that she likes someone else. try to tell her the truth and see the results. be honest. girls like honest persons.
2006-08-07 20:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on this site on how to forget about it and move on
2006-08-07 20:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and get another one to have fun with!
2006-08-07 20:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by wmichael.harvey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can get what she interests in, then share ur experience with her. then u have a common topic.
2006-08-07 20:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by geor2j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋