Please give me of your opinion?

Question

i have two boys now. my hands are full and i am very tired! but i keep thinking about getting pregnant, it is always on my mind for a long time. what should i do?

Answer 1

its normal its the wonder full filling of being pregnant like filling the first kick or hick up you start to miss it after a while i know i did that's why i now have 4 all under 5 years old

Answer 2

If you are tired and busy with your other children then bringing another child into the world may be a mistake. You would be unable to help them if you are constantly tired and have no time to yourself.
Think about why you want to be pregnant, is it because you want another child or is it about something else. Perhaps people treat you differently when you are pregnant, or do you simply feel more relaxed.
Try to set aside some time in the evening for yourself to allow for some quality thinking time.
If you have the means to support another child (both emotionally and financially) then why not have another. But it is a big decision so take as much time as you need to think about the pros and cons.

Answer 3

First of all know yourself. Why do want to get pregnant. Is it just because you had good times in pregnancy or because now you want a girl, one can not be sure about that.

I know pregnancy is a great experience with a mix of joys & problems. But Overall everyone find pleasure / happiness, which is not been privelege to men.

Your boys are your responsibilities. I'll advise you to wait till the boys understand things.

Answer 4

If your hands are full and you are tired, why not wait so you can five your two boys the best that you can offer as their mother? They deserve your best and with another child, you may have more than you can handle if you are busy and tired with the two of them. They need you!

Answer 5

it is wonderful that u want another child in the situation u are.!! but think what a mother has to do in this world. she doesn't have only the role of giving birth to a baby but also to offer him a good life. so if u can't do that for 3 kids, don't u think u are a little bit selfish trying to get pregnant at this moment.

Answer 6

Wanting another baby is normal. The way the baby kicks and moves inside of you. The smell of a baby thats just had a bath. Snuggling the infant in your arms. Its a natural instinct in most women. But you also have to be realistic. Can you take the time and energy to take care of another kid? Can you afford another kid? How does your husband feel about another baby? These are important questions you have to ask and answer.

Answer 7

well, honey do yourself a favor and have a rest! another child depending on how old you are if you can financially afford it, will come along later on! being tired is not always is not a good thing because there is a possibility that you will get sick and your children will suffer if that happens. if you love your kids and yourself which you should because your children needs you, you should concentrate on their future and start planning a vacation when you are ready. remember healthy mom healthy kids. i know coz i got two boys too. take care and good luck

Answer 8

I share ur sentiments. I also have two boys, but i still think of having another baby, of course a girl would be best.

But sometimes, I m a bit worried about whether i will be able to give everyone of them equal care. That's why up to now, i m still undecided.

Answer 9

Why don't you offer to keep someones one year old twins for one month for free or work for a day care center. That would put a damper on both your sex lives and keep you thinking of getting pregnant again.

Answer 10

If you think you are busy now, just wait until you have 3 children. I would wait quite awhile and just enjoy your 2 boys.