I have two friends who love me. How do I go out with the one I like without offending the other?

Question

I am a teenage guy who has two very close female best friends. One is attractive dating material (Elle) while the other is not (Kristina). Kristina is in love with me and all of our friends know it. She thinks we have a romantic relationship that really does not exist and is very possessive. Elle and I have been great friends, but she has always admitted that she viewed me just as a brother.

Well the other night we were home alone and played a game where we kissed one another. I hated kissing Kristina, but I found that I really enjoyed french kissing Elle. She also admitted that she had a dirtry dream about me which she found quite erotic. A suttle attraction seemed to develop and Kristina could sense this. She got extremely jealous even though she isn't my girlfriend!

Tonight Elle and I admitted that we have feelings for eachother. We sort of want a relationship, but we both are worried of losing our close friendship with Kristina. What should we do to all remain friends?

Answer 1

Well just talk to Kristina and tell her that she is one of your best friends but that is all you see her as.

Answer 2

Just go with elle and calmly let kristina down

Answer 3

Ok, the only way to garuntee that you all will remain friends for sure is that you two don't get together... Now... In reality, that probably isn't a good thing...

My suggestion is to be honest and go out with the person that you'd rather go out in... Your other friend will be mad... but if she's really your friend... then she'll eventually understand...

Answer 4

The exceptional factor to do is to mention "I'll pray for you too". Just realize that what he approach is "I handle you such a lot, and I desire the exceptional to your existence, (which in my perception, is so that you can be comfortable with Jesus!)" If you realize that, then simply take delivery of the care, and forget about the leisure.

Answer 5

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