So I am in my late 20's. I am a really good, honest, christian guy. i just got over a realtionship, and have been dating for the past few months. At what point do I stop dating and start to look for someone or something real?? And wher do I find ladies who are looking for someone sincere & honest...I am over the Internet thing btw to many perv's make give good guys a bad name, and Church dating always makes me end up with someone who is a little L7 for my taste. ARGH!!! Is it supposed to be this frustrating?? Believe or not I am beginning to feel my biological clock ticking...Somebody figure this one out!!
2006-08-07 19:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oliver, Oliver, the dilemma of the species.
Okay, here's what I know - from a girl's perspective.
You'll either find 'the one' and just 'know' (believe me on this) or you'll get sick of being single and start looking at your friends (female) who are either single or in relationships that don't matter (to you or her that is).
I found my husband online - we were together for seven years, got married and this november we celebrate our 10th dating anniversary.
Try joining some interest groups - there's nothing worse than being with someone who doesn't have at least one bonding interest.
Take time to work out who you are - ie, do you like staying home or going out, do you rage or do you like quiet dinners, do you love or hate pets, do you want or not want children - believe me, these are all questions that matter and will help you work out you are looking for and act as a fast way to weed out the potential from the lack-of-potential.
Give it time buddy! I'd say the fact that you're asking means you're getting towards the stage of being ready. Also, look around at your friends and what's going on with them - you could be feeling this way because those around you are starting to settle down - that kind of thing can put pressure on you without realising it.
Let me know if there's anything else I can do to help.
Best of luck!
Meg
P.S. Oh, and in response to Julie (sorry if the name isn't right), boys DO have a biological clock. Otherwise why would they get to the stage when they want to settle down? Biologically speaking, boys do still have female hormones travelling in their bodies so it's a logical concept for a boy even to feel their biological clock ticking.
2006-08-07 19:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by ausbabe29_megan 3 · 10⤊ 2⤋
It seems as if you are frustrated with the whole dating thing now, so maybe you should just step away for a little while. It will give you a much needed break and allow you to gain some prespective. Also, if you stop looking you might stumble onto the right woman for you. It is strange how whenever you are searching everywhere for something only to find it when you stop looking. Good Luck.
2006-08-07 19:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you do to have a clock! Sooner or later the batteries on that clock will run out.
If you just got over a relationship give yourself time to heal. I know its hard but thats just because your used to the companionship. Dont jump into another just because you're lonely, bored, etc.
Put yourself out there so you can see the options you have.
A lot of options=Time to see whats really out there
2006-08-07 19:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by ftbll-mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats constantly the toughest component for me too. I income peace via constantly finding for Gods purpose, with no need too discouraged. case in point, somebody on the component of me died youthful, or maybe with the fact that it harm immensley, I discovered plenty approximately my existence by using his suffering and dying. attempt to have self assurance that God's will is greater desirable than our own. He shall we issues happen by way of fact He needs us to adventure existence as what it relatively is. alongside with the tragadies, we are additionally witness to the superb miracles. with the intention to stay our lives the way they are and notice issues like infants being born, we additionally ought to witness the different end of the cycle. wish this helps. Sorry so long.
2016-12-11 04:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up! being a good, honest, christian man, you'll understand that God has a plan for you. Someday, somewhere, when you least expect it, it's gonna happen. See....when God closes one door, another one opens....just keep in mind, the hallway in between the doors may be hell.
2006-08-07 19:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha oh unfortunately, i don't think anyone can figure this out. believe me, i can feel the frustration :) i think when you reach this point, it is time to just let go and let things happen how they should. no point in purposely going out there and frustrating yourself, and who knows.. you'll probably meet the girl of your dreams where you least expect when you least expect it.
2006-08-07 19:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we want things to happen so bad that I feel we should take time for other things in life and let the Lord take care our hearts desires. He does listen, let it happen, go do other things for a while.
2006-08-07 19:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a boy..you don't have a clock dear. That refers to the time period that a woman can have a child.
2006-08-07 19:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know.
2006-08-07 19:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋