Have you fell in love with somebody via net and are happily married?

Question

My pen pal is in love with me and now he wants to meet and possibly hook up.

Answer 1

Not Me...But my best pal's bro did...They are Happily Married and they have a daughter...And the best part is that they are not only from different countries, their languages, and culturs are also different...

The bottom line is...If two ppl have understanding and true love for each other they can live together forever...

Don't just push your self...Think well and then take any decission...

Best of Luck...

Answer 2

Hey, I havent. But I think you should be very careful. Nowadays there are all kinds of people on the net. All you know about yo pal is what s/he has chosen to tell you. You can never know if s/he is lying. A friend of mine met a guy on the net, and just after their wedding, he decided he did not want the marriage anyway and just left.

Take all the precautionary measures possible. You should not meet your pal alone. You should take time and study each other before you consider marriage.

Answer 3

In point of fact, yes, I have. However, do NOT assume that just because others have had success with using the internet to find a committed relationship that this means all will be well between you and your "pen-pal". Be sure you understand the terms when he says things like "hook-up". Don't commit to anything or to doing anything until you really know him in the real world. Even the best of people online are rarely all that rosy in real life.

Answer 4

not via net, but over the phone. my husband an i met one night, then we had a long distance phone relationship for 11 months till we got married. Now we have been very happily married for 1 year and 2 months.

Answer 5

No, but I've met some great virtual friends. I've only met a few girls I met online, but that was back in the mid-90s. Nowadays, who knows what you are getting? It's like how hitchhiking was OK back in the 60s, but now forget it....

As for you, try the phone and webcam route first if you haven't already. If you feel that you want to meet also, then go to a public place like a coffee shop or bar. Most importantly, HAVE FUN!!!!

Answer 6

A year ago I met someone on the net. He had done everything (email, chat.. net communications) that hope of falling in love to him and by the time I did felt in love and everything was planned of meeting up, he just disappeared. I was totally hurt 'coz I was so careful then but I can't blame anyone nor himself, it is I who fall into his crooked ideas.

I don't give you a notion of leaving him but just be careful. Feel it but think more. And one more thing, long distance relationship is way too hard.

I wish you good luck. And just give it a try.

P.S. I'm dating again with someone I met on matrimonial site this time.

Answer 7

Hmm. I think you already know what you want to do. Because deep down, whether someone else says "yes" or "no" to that question, you'll still be left wondering what is the right choice for you.

Ask yourself how you feel about this person. And, based on that, if you want to meet and find out more.

Lots of people meet online and have successfull relationships and marriages.

Lots of time it doens't work too.

meeting the first time can be stressful, because it challenges perceptions built up over time. maybe they won't live up to expectations. maybe i won't. maybe i like things as they are and it will screw things up. or maybe i don't like things and want out, but i should give it a chance...just to be sure. maybe we're at different points. maybe i'm not sure what i want yet and he seems too sure.

all these questions will be resolved over time, either online or in person or both. prolly graudally rather than quickly.

But it comes down to your feelings, what do you want to do? just do that and you'll be fine. :)

Answer 8

Yes. We met 8 years ago online. We weren't looking at the time. We've now been together 5 years, even though it's long distance. We're working on the visa to get him into the country. I'm Canadian, he's American.

We've been married since June 17th.

Answer 9

I met someone over the net. Actually two. My ex and my current boyfriend. My current bf is the person I want to marry but it definately takes a lot for relationships like this. You just have to work at them if that's what you really want.

Answer 10

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