his name is john and we have been really deep realtionship but we live so far apart and he was cheating on me and he is into drugs and i still love him he treats me like i am a queen he has a kid but he is begging me to go back to him and i dont know what to do please somone help me
2006-08-07 18:51:56 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I dated that guy, but his name was Marc. That was 6 yrs. ago and wouldn't you know it, he still does drugs, still cheats on his girlfriends and still DOESN'T take care of his son. I don't know what kingdom you are from, but being treated like a queen doesn't mean getting cheated on and putting up with all the other B.S.
2006-08-07 19:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by andrea b 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Ok 1. It's not possible for him to treat you like a queen and be cheating on you at the same time. Any guy that has respect for you would never dream about cheating on you. 2. If he's into drugs, I would be scared. Drug addicts can freak out in about a minutes notice and even if he hasn't been violent with you yet...it could happen. I would wait and see if he's willing to change that part of his life for you along with the cheating. But you know what they say..."once a cheater, always a cheater." If you're having doubts, and obviously you are otherwise you wouldn't be asking the question, than I would say don't go back to him, unless you are absolutely sure that you want to be with him. In the end it's your desicion :) Good luck.
2006-08-08 01:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Aliyah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound rude, but I suggest that you don't take him back. If John already cheated on you, what makes you think that he won't do it again? Plus, he's a drug addict, which always spells trouble in a relationship! There are a lot of guys in the world who'll treat you like a queen. Visit webdate--dot--com and meet the clean and loyal people there! I'm sure you won't regret going there!
2006-08-08 02:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jane C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. if he loved you so much he would not cheat on you.he cant even set an example for his kid let alone stay commited to one person. if you go back he will take advantage because he knows you love him and you will always come back so then it gives him even more reason to cheat on you and do drugs. make a wise decision and dont consider his feelings think about your own because right now you the one that was faithful and yet he never thought twice about cheating on you. he does not deserve you so find someone that is worth it and that will be faithful. dont let him bring you down with him because he is not worth it.
2006-08-08 02:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. What makes you think he's not going to cheat again. I mean he could be treating you like a queen and asking for you back while he's with another girl. He has kid with another girl that he pobably cheated on after he knew she was pregnant. This guy is bad news and you deserve better.
2006-08-08 01:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on you does not equate to treating you like a queen. Drugs are bad news. Try to step out the box, if you're best friend were in a sitaution like this what would you tell them?
2006-08-08 01:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing that i have learned in all relationships, do not get involved with someone already has an addiction, which John has. In a loving relationship you are supposed to be the one that he is addicted to. You may love him and he may love you, but he loves the cheating and drug addiction more. Or else he would not be doing these things. Good Luck!
2006-08-08 01:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't he's cheating on u and he is on drugs do want to have something like this in ur life.love deep and passionately u might get hurt but it is the only way to live life completely. so move on with ur life
2006-08-08 01:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on iff you can deal with his drug use and being cheated on.. usually a cheater is a liar ,too.. so be careful.. ive been there so Im not gona tell you its easy, but you have to totally forgive in order to totally forget it. otherwise it will mess you up later too..good luck, that one really hurts..
2006-08-08 01:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by igotbuuurnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, too much baggage! He's got issues that can negatively affect your own life. You should just move on, you'll more than likely be glad you did...Take care.
2006-08-08 01:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ jojo ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋