i really like this guy but dont know if he likes me should i ask him out?
i dont know if this guy likes me like i like him. whenever our group of friends go out to the club he always dances with me. if im dancing with some else he asks to dance with me. this week after the club he asked my best friend if i liked him she said " i dont know do you like her?" she told me he just had a big goofy smile on his face and shrugged his shoulders. what does that mean? andy advice would be helpful.
2006-08-07 18:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like this guy but dont know if he likes me should i ask him out?
i dont know if this guy likes me like i like him. whenever our group of friends go out to the club he always dances with me. if im dancing with some else he asks to dance with me. this week after the club he asked my best friend if i liked him she said " i dont know do you like her?" she told me he just had a big goofy smile on his face and shrugged his shoulders. what does that mean? andy advice would be helpful.
how should i ask him?
2006-08-07 18:49:16 · update #1
all of these answers were great. thank you so much for you time and advice.
2006-08-07 18:51:05 · update #2
Go for it, what is the worst that could happen? You might get turned down but if he is not going to make the first move you might be passing up on a lot of fun. Sounds like he at least likes dancing with you and that is a good thing. Get out there and enjoy! Best of luck.
2006-08-07 18:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mav 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
its funny you ask this question because he is most likely wondering the same thing. it would appear that since he he asked your best friend whether or not you like him the most obvious answer is yes, because if he didnt like u then he wouldnt keep asking you to dance after knowing your best friend would tell u he asked if you liked him. I think he asked that knowing ur friend would tell u because he wasnt sure if u liked him so he asked to see if u would change ur behavior toward him for more of a concrete answer. guys do that some times when they are around someone they like. they for some reason, upon liking someone, can no longer pick up on the signs chicks give out
and good luck
2006-08-07 18:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by emberjet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh!!! you got the big goofy smile!
lol..i love that on a guy. I absolutly adored my boyfriend before we dated and we played such games... had no idea weither he wanted to date me or not..but i spoke to his best friend and i admitted that i liked him and i guess he let it slip to my boyfriend that i liked him.
Best bit of advice i can hand you is that you should tell his best friend that you like him...if his best friend truly is the good kind of friend that is wanting to get good for him...he will either pass the news on and tell you that he likes you and make the move...or will disregard the information and you will see no change in this friend.
and...idk...call me old fashioned...but i've never been the one to ask the guy out..and i think they feel a little abashed when the girl asks them out..just as they feel abashed about not being the one to go in for the first kiss..
so once you know he likes you ...play with it for a little. He'll ask you when he's ready. :)
2006-08-07 19:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by etiam_advenio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you. The question is in what way. Would you two really fit? You can't find out unless you two get together and talk. What is he like? What are each of your interests? Not just the serious side, the fun side. Not just the fun side, the serious side. Do you like bike riding, ask him along. Golfing, invite him to a round, even mini golf. Reading, invite him to a bookstore that has a coffee shop. You get the idea. Have fun!
2006-08-07 18:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Suzanne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, go for it. It sounds like the both of you want to get together. Don't waste time and be outgoing, ask him out. If you don't you'll never know what might have been. If it doesn't work you can at least say you tried.
2006-08-07 18:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by super mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a big 10-4. You got him right where you want himso you might as well walk right up to him and make a move. Because you got that cat in your bag all you have to do is make the first move that even Ray Charles could see. He's all yours
2006-08-07 18:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by chris t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him enough to become involved w/him go for it. If you believe you have found true love then don't let it pass you by. Whats the worst he could say. NO. Life does go on..
2006-08-07 18:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by hopefullrec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be the first to tell you to go for it, but, don't you feel like if you just wait a while longer he'll come around to ask you?
And if he does, you will be so proud of yourself.
2006-08-07 18:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out already, drum of the confidence and talk to him. The worst that could happen is he says no and you move on, go for it.
-NmD!
2006-08-07 18:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...please do not ask him out. If a guy likes you, he WILL ask you out. Just give him subtle hints that you like him, flirt with him, etc. Guys like a challenge, and if you just hand things to them...it ruins that
2006-08-07 18:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋