All Girls Please Help!!!?

Question

I'm in 8th grade, I like this guy very much. He is very funny. I am most defanite he likes me. Yet, if I ask him out, and he gets all freaked out, he won't even be my friend. I don't really know what to do. It's the start of a new school year, I really want to go out with him. I think about him all the time. When I see the clouds outside, they remind me of him, because last year, in 7th grade, we would sit outside together and look at the clouds, and I would even skip lunch just to be with him. I like him very much.

Please.....don't tell me, "You are much too young to think about these kind of things. Worry about your education."

I really like this guy, and I need help.

I know he's not gay, he was just in a relationship, that broke his heart. and, we watched the clouds outside.
I just live with my mom, she doesn't really pay attention to all that goes on in my life.

Answer 1

well if he skipped luch to look at clouds with you he definetly see's you as a close friend (maybe more) and that could develop into something more. Since it is a new school year hang out with him and try to build the friendship back up. try to get him to skip lunch with you to go look at the clouds and while you are doing that mention a movie that is playing and chances are he will say i want to see that and then you should suggest going together

Answer 2

Sorry, hun, but you are much too young to think about having a boyfriend. Eighth grade is a time of innocence and self discovery. That's an age where young people experiment with adult things, like dating, but just don't know what to do yet. They're much too young to know how to have that kind of relationship. It's perfectly alright if you like him, and completely normal. A lot of people who end up getting married knew each other since your age or younger. Still, now is the time to just enjoy
your girlfriends, and limit the amount of time you spend around boys. That would be the safest situation for you, so you don't get yourself into a situation you can't handle. Boys can be pretty aggressive sometimes, and I'm sure he's a nice boy. I'm not questioning that. Just take things very slowly, and don't try to grow up too fast. And I know you probably don't want to hear this either, but I think if he truly likes you, he will like you years from now, too. If you insist on seeing him, always do so with the supervision of an adult, or at least in a public place. Maybe you could go to a chaperoned dance together as friends.

Answer 3

I know what your going through.

That happened to me the same time, when i was in 8th grade. But we use to watch football games instead. But mine's didn't work out. He nver had the courage to ask me out. And later on in the year, he asked some other girl out.

I know that you like him a lot, a lot.

But play it easy, let him come to you, no matter how hard you want to give in, DON'T!

Try to also keep in mind that skipping classes for him, isn't really worth it. In the end, you'll regret doing some of those things. It's not like you guy are really getting married or anything, so just keep in mind, that you're a person too, and that you should also do what's best for you, or you could become some obsessive girl waiting every second by the phone for a guy to call you back.

hope this helps, good luck

Answer 4

Well you are young sweetcheeks, but not to worry, so am I. I remeber that it was not very long ago when I thought I liked someone, but life is way to short to not take risks, be nervous and scared, or even do things we all don't want to. Go for it, ask him if he feels the same, chances are you probably won't last, but not to worry because 8th - 10th grade will be your years for heartbreak and hopes up. Just don't make the same mistakes I did and giving "it" away, then regretting it later. A man is not always going to be there for you, and I know it's so totally hard to understand now, but once you fall in love and they break your heart over and over again, you'll soon realize that you don't need a man to make you happy, because if he loved you the way he says he does, he wouldn't break your heart. I have so many friends that are pregnent and have kids, and they can't change that, but I chose to be with a guy that had a baby, and now he's 3. So take a chance and ask him out, but if he doesn't want to be anything more than a friend, wait 'til you get in high school and you'll be boy crazed all over again. good luck and let me know how it works out. if you want to we can chat sometime (add me to your list if you want to: xautumn_skyexluver17 @yahoo.com)

Answer 5

First of all, don't rush it. You said that you'd hang out last year so maybe this year you'll still hang and watch clouds or whatever. The important thing is that he likes you as well and you don't want to change that. Don't be too aggressive. The older guys get the more daring they get. They break out of that shyness and start knowing how to aproach girls. So, let him come to you. Another thing that works real good is to remember this: Sometimes less attention gets more results.

Answer 6

if you two skipped lunch JUST to be together, AND watched the clouds together, then you two already have something going on. but you should talk more first, get to know eachothers interests more and stuff like that, maybe along the line he will ask you out. he may just need more time to think about him. you also need to show him you are comfortable around him and love to be with them. that seems like the best idea =]

Answer 7

there is one thing that i did alot in school and that was i would talk to all of my friends that were girls and they would go ask a guy that i liked if he liked me and if he wanted to go out with me .. and most of the time it does work and they would come tell me what the guy said if he said they i would go talk to him and ask him .. guys are very shy and crazy when it comes to thing like this. that is the only way i can think of for now but you also but try to ask him or wait a little bit and see how this year goes he may ask you ... i hope this has helped you in some way

Answer 8

Well, if he's sitting outside looking at clouds with you, it sounds like he enjoys your company. If you really like this guy, take a chance and ask him. If he says no, it doesn't mean you can't still be friends. You guys are young. But if you don't take a chance, you might never know!

Answer 9

well if he likes you he wont get all freaked out so let him know that you like him and see how things go from there.by the way you are to young and you should first pursue your career before thinking about these things because in the end it can hurtful.if he likes you and you are destined to be together then it will happen but if not then tough luck. guys are cruel and they will do anything to see you hurt and then what do you benefit out of it, a broken heart so take things slow and you wont regret it

Answer 10

Well 8th grader evey body falls in love and I know that your parents think that you should be into school if you think that he is funny let him know that and if you like him that much tell him.
Ask him out just to see what he's going to say to you if he says no that don't mean that it's the end of the world and yes stay with your education.