i ask this girl out with this note. and it was b4 spring break right.. so then couple of days i get no response. finally i get a text on my cell saying "i just cant have anything with anyone right now, i just have too many things going on." like i felt devastated but i knew i had to hold it in cus going back to school and all, i couldnt act all sad and stuff. so finalyl after the couple weeks went by, we both forgot about it. like we never mentioned it to each other after that. i actually got really close to her again.but then today craziest thing happened. this other kid she was close too began going out with her. i thought i didnt care, but sure as hell i did. im like dying to kno what i should do now? like i prmised myself after she sent that txt that i would finally give up on her if she went out with someone, but something inside of me tells me ill prob. take her back even after they breakup or something. goddd. man im so confused. i really need advice...
2006-08-07 18:12:38 · 7 answers · asked by some jersey kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing you really need to be careful of - if they do break up, you really need to give her time to wind down after that. You don't want to be her rebound relationship.. it'll cause heartbreak.. nothing good comes from those. It's hard to promise yourself that you won't like someone, but in order to keep your friendship you have to try your hardest. And back to the breaking up thing.. be there to comfort her, don't jump on to asking her out or dis him or anything. Just give words of comfort and be the good friend that you obviously are.
2006-08-07 18:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by rach :) 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
now let me see if Ive got this right, you were in a cell, during the spring, and you wanted to break out, and you asked this girl out, but she wanted to go with some other loser, then you got a text, you are so confused, because you are devastated, by breaking up with yourself....... now is this what happened or what??????
2006-08-07 18:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy f*cking sh*t dude.. GET THE F*CK OVER IT!!!! SHE'S NOT F*KING INTERESTED!!! JUST F*CKING DROP IT!!! HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT??? You know what? You're unbelievably annoying... Take a hint and leave her alone.
2006-08-07 18:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Monkeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think just leave her alone cause she may be a flirt roaming wid many boys carry on and find another sweet girl
2006-08-07 18:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by ritika shah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your in love...sorry...why is she going out with someone else and not you? did u ask her again? it seems that she doesn't have that much going on anymore...she may need time with someone else...but who knows, maybe you two are meant to be together...
2006-08-07 18:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you take her back? You never had her. You need to move on.
2006-08-07 18:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will just have to get over it man
2006-08-07 18:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋