I found out that my guy is looking at porn sites and e-mailing a girl he used to know... Is he a pervert and is he cheating?
2006-08-07 17:53:43 · 16 answers · asked by crudsgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The email was nothing like they were going to meet. It was just small talk... The porn was digusting... He has videos... I deleted them...We have been together over a year and engaged and I just don't want to make another mistake....
2006-08-07 18:01:52 · update #1
no
2006-08-07 18:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The porn is normal. There may a degree of perversion of what kind he watches. Example: I think watching girls under 18 is perverted and wrong, plus it's illegal. E-mailing the girl? I don't know. My bf knows many girls but I trust him enough to know he isn't doing anything other then having a polite conversation or giving advice. Ask him why if you don't trust him.
2006-08-07 18:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at porn sites is pretty normal for a guy. Emailing another girl he use to know, if they are friends its probably nothing but if he trys to hide it, he probably is cheating on you.
2006-08-07 17:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, how is your sex life with him? Porn is natural! Everyone out there indulges occasionally. Now if he would rather be watching porn than having sex with you, then there's a problem
Almost everyone I know agrees that staying friends with an ex is better than hating them. So, no he's probably not cheating.
2006-08-07 18:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by peaceful_nit_mare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheeesh, like you never look when you have a chance to see a sexy naked guy ;)... He is not a perv, but he might be cheating, or it could be just an innocent friendship. If I were you I would talk to him about the e-mails...
2006-08-07 18:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by kichka_2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is a pervert and by being in communication with an ex without your knowledge he is also cheating.
You deserve better than him. Run girl!
2006-08-07 17:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn - normal
E-mailing old girlfriend - cheating or wishing he was cheating
2006-08-07 17:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt listen to the women on here - EVERY MAN HAS A PORN STASH ! if you think your man dosent then you just havent found it yet. Its normal - men are very sexual creatures.
2006-08-07 18:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Blue M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a sex maniac. maybe he doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about porn stuff and the other girl might accept that kind of stuff.
2006-08-07 18:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well depends....what are the emails like? is he addicted to porn? ask him. we dont know.
2006-08-07 17:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by useful idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a perv, but you might want to talk to him about the emailing.
2006-08-07 17:57:27 · answer #11 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋