To expound, why do men continue to communicate, flirt, etc., with women who like them, but don't reciprocate the same feelings? I think I answered my own question, but I would like different point of views. Thanks. :)
2006-08-07 17:42:50 · 19 answers · asked by msmyssy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes its their ego, they like the attention, or theyre confused, or they really like your friendship.
2006-08-07 17:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by hollywoodqueen_2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's @$#$ed up! I don't even know why they do it, but it p---es me off bad! Idiots. Here's a really good story you should hear:
CURTAIN RODS
She spent the first day packing her belongings into boxes,
crates and suitcases.
On the second day, she had the movers come and collect her
things.
On the third day, she sat down for the last time at their
beautiful dining room table by candlelight, put on some soft
background music, and feasted on a pound of shrimp, a jar of caviar,
and a bottle of Chardonnay.
When she had finished, she went into each and every room
and deposited a few half-eaten shrimp shells, dipped in caviar, into
the hollow of the curtain rods.
She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.
When the husband returned with his new girlfriend, all was
bliss for
the first few days. Then slowly, the house began to smell.
They tried everything; cleaning and mopping and airing the
place out. Vents were checked for dead rodents, and carpets were
steam cleaned. Air fresheners were hung everywhere.
Exterminators were brought in to set off gas canisters,
during which they had to move out for a few days, and in the end they
even paid to replace the expensive wool carpeting.
Nothing worked. People stopped coming over to visit...
Repairmen refused to work in the house...The maid quit...
Finally, they could not take the stench any longer and
decided to move.
A month later, even though they had cut their price in
half, they could not find a buyer for their stinky house. Word got
out, and eventually, even the local realtors refused to return their
calls.
Finally, they had to borrow a huge sum of money from the
bank to purchase a new place.
The ex-wife called the man, and asked how things were
going. He told her the saga of the rotting house. She listened
politely, and said that she missed her old home terribly, and would
be willing to reduce her
divorce settlement in exchange for getting the house back...
Knowing his ex-wife had no idea how bad the smell was, he
agreed on price that was about 1/10th of what the house had been
worth...But only if she were to sign the papers that very day. She
agreed, and within
the hour, his lawyers delivered the paperwork.
A week later, the man and his new girlfriend stood smirking
as they watched the moving company pack everything to take to their
new home....
including the curtain rods.
I LOVE A HAPPY ENDING, DON'T YOU?
2006-08-08 00:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by nichellecomicbookgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys like to get attention as much as anyone else and just because they do not like the person they like the attention. Another reason is maybe the guy is being nice and eventhough he does not like the girl he will flirt with her because he knows that he wont see her again and he is just having fun at the time. As long as no one gets hurt why does it matter
2006-08-08 00:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants options. Better to keep the second string girls happy by continuing to be nice to them. That way if you strike out with the ones you really want, you're not left alone.
2006-08-08 00:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in general talk or flirt with others that they have no interest in for the attention!!! People like being around others who like/love them! It makes them feel good about themselves!
2006-08-08 00:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys like to hear that the girl likes him. Men are so evil like that that they would lower a girl into complimenting a guy! So they get their big head and the girl gets nothing!
2006-08-08 00:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by rebel_sweetheart_15_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because flirting is something that like everything else requires practice. and men who are good at it, and sometimes can even ne considered players flirt with everyone, plus it may just be a personality thing
2006-08-08 00:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by willthegreat07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying about men that goes something like this "Men, they don't want you and they don't want anyone else to have you" It's like a notch on a belt, headboard or fresh cement.
2006-08-08 00:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO make them feel good. Boys( not men) like to have as many women in their circle as possible. It makes them feel like a playa or pimp. Like to be seen and noticed.
2006-08-08 00:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men, just like women, love the attention they get from the opposite sex, it boosts the self esteem. So if you give it, they will take it.....
2006-08-08 00:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Cause they're being nice? Would you rather they just ignore you altogether? If you know they're leading you on then it's your own fault that you keep falling for it. Why don't YOU just stop talking to THEM?
2006-08-08 00:46:39 · answer #11 · answered by elk312 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋